Im feeling low and I decided to use yahoo to vent. My dad just left my family for another woman, pointing us on some problems such as financial problem, stress, and some emotional problems. Im 22 years old and Im currently going to school full time but next year I'll work full time and take some night classes. Im feeling kinda low because it's a big change in my life, I didn't see myself and my family in this situation but now it's here I just have to adapt and support my family 110%. It's final week so Im a little bit stress out and with all the problems it doesn't make it any easier. Any advice or up lifting words would be nice. I kinda sounds like a loser but whatever...So if you feeling low or down? State your probably here and will go through it together...Peace and Love..
2006-12-10 12:43:51 · 7 answers · asked by papageorgeo510 2 in Social Science ➔ Other - Social Science
I'm sorry to hear that you're having to go through this especially with it being such a trying time with your finals. You are a very nice young man to offer to listen to others when your own problems are so overwhelming. Just let me say that you will be twice the man your father was and you will make your family proud. The world needs more people like you, who show compassion and responsiblity. Good luck to you and your family.
2006-12-10 12:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by Hillaryforpresident 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you're going through a hard time right now. I was seven when my dad left so my situation was a little different, but I remember the hurt feelings and the worries. You sound like a very sweet guy who wants to be there for his family during this trying time. That's very admirable, but remember to take some time to vent to friends (I'm glad you vented now) and to have some time for fun (I know that seems hard as it's finals, but there will be life after finals, I promise). One thing that I can tell you is that the initial change is hard, but things will slowly get into a new routine. I wish you all the best and am sending positive energy your way. Peace and love to you too.
2006-12-10 21:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweety im going to try and be as honest and out right without hurting you any further. you can feel safe to know that you are not alone in this!! i for one cant rely on my mother for anything except to get on my nerves! and my sisters come around when they want to... and my dad is dead. so lets see im adopted so im not entitled to alot of this normal kids are and im in school full time with a full class schedule! and i work a partime job where my boss is a true ASSHOLE! i make minimum wage and my tuition is so much i cant afford a car so i walk for miles and sometimes hitch rides.
i was abandonded alont time ago and sometimes its so hard i wanna DIE!!!! but when challenges come your way take it and learn from it and use it to grow!
never allow one problem to tie you down becuase if u do u will be taken under but take that problem and wrap it around your waiste and grab hold of the next one and and keep wrapping until its all in a ball and that way you can dribble it and dunk it.
its called exercise (SMILE) use what you have, and always learn and find ways to adapt...never be ashamed to apply for welfar, foodstamps, or stand on a bread line becuase its a blessing that you will need and if you dont then you are well off more than you think.
try being homeless and beaten and raped and have your children die before they could be born... its hurts out there i know
2006-12-10 22:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by gaurdianangelic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been feeling reALLY Depressed alot lately, but i can't compare with what you must be going through, especially at such a young age...people like your father, no morals, no conscience make this society harder to trust and live in...i hope you realize what a nice, caring, responsible person you are...very rare in this world....don't give up and always know there are people out there who really do care. good luck.
2006-12-11 02:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by capricornmice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry to hear what happened with your dad. i just want to let you know that your feelings are TOTALLY valid. i bet you feel betrayed, and it is natural to be feeling low after something like this happens. i don't know if this will speak to you or not, but God loves you and cares about what happens to you. He knows that you are going through this and wants to comfort you. He is the perfect heavenly father who will never let you down.
2006-12-10 20:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by AbRoller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really sorry for you! I hope you make it through this. My sister is a cutter, so i just wanted to say that don't do that! I know you can make it though it! I hope that you take my advise and don't start or continue cutting!
2006-12-10 20:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember you are your mother's son, not her husband. The weight of caring for the family does not fall on your shoulders and don't allow her to place it there.
2006-12-10 20:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋