husband left four months ago. recently started dating question that i need answer to is When is a good time to invite my new friend into my bed???
2006-12-10 12:28:24 · 21 answers · asked by Jenni B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Gee, I dont know. MAYBE WHEN YOU ARE NOT MARRIED. Duh. Have the feeling that there is an awful lot you didnt tell us, like why he left, why you are dating so soon, etc. Didnt take you long to replace that thing now did it?
2006-12-10 12:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you should tie up this lose end with the ex first . you dont want to get into to something with some one else and still have baggage from previous relationship . I know you said husband left but sometimes time has a way of working things out for people . Just because he has done wrong dont mean you have to do wrong. Now if you know it is over get divorce and move on by all means just dont get caught up ,some times things have a way of reversing themselves if you know what i mean.. take care
2006-12-10 14:08:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Nava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just got separated, you may want to spend more time than usual getting to know the new person. My friend who was separated was surprised at how many feelings got brought up the first time she was with another man after separation. It should feel right to you. There is no set time.
2006-12-10 12:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by cotopaximary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your divorce final? If not, you are committing adultery. If it is and you aren't married to the man you are sleeping with it is adultery. Take up knitting or pilates.
I have been separated 2 years/ divorced 18 months. No sex for me till my new wedding night, which is a long way off considering I don't date till my kids are grown and gone from home.
2006-12-10 12:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number one just because you are seperated dont mean you are divorced...Never ever rush into other relationships until the one you are in is dissolved..Can and will cause alot of troubles..My suggesttion is to take it slow,,dont rush into sex and by all rights get a divorce...In God's eyes that is adultery..I was seperated and I never got involved with another man because by the grace of God my husband and i did work things out...I would hold up but of course you can do what you want,,just dont want it to back fire on you one day...God bless
2006-12-10 12:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by glowworm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is the same as it was when you dated before, if you jump right into bed with them, they will still think you are easy, oh they will do it but deep down they want a challengee..take time why jump back into something you are not sure of...if you do not watch out he may think he can move right in...think about it, it is up to you in the long run.........
2006-12-10 12:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chances are very high that you'll repeat the mistake if you haven't completed the separation. Four months isn't very long to grieve a separation.
2006-12-10 12:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do no longer you document for divorce first! Then for a collectively as after that, all you opt for is a sturdy asss 'transitional guy'!! No thoughts! purely a stunning guy that would get your suggestions off all the bs which you have in simple terms long undergone!!
2016-10-05 03:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you are looking for, long term you should be more patient.
just to get your groove on never invite to your bed, but a nice hotel room.
2006-12-10 12:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was YOU then i would suggest taking your time because you dont want to get to close to someone and then have something happen and another break up occur leaving you devastated and depressed.
2006-12-10 12:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date till you are divorced. However, if you have kids, don't be dating for quite some time.
2006-12-10 13:04:53 · answer #11 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋