Ok , Ok I cheated and all he has is suspecion?

Question

What should I do should I confess and leave.

Answer 1

You must not be happy if you went out and cheated. Tell your husband/boyfriend that your not happy and that you want to leave. But if he dont want too leave him, then you need to let him know you cheated. Whether he wants to stay is up to him, but I say he needs to know. Think if he was in your shoes. Wouldnt you want to know?

Answer 2

All affairs are not alike. The affairs fall into four broad categories. Most first affairs are cases of accidental infidelity, unintended and uncharacteristic acts of carelessness that really did "just happen." Someone will get drunk, will get caught up in the moment, will just be having a bad day. It can happen to anyone, though some people are more accident prone than others, and some situations are accident zones. If you decide that infidelity was a stupid thing to do, it may be wise not confess it, but to resolve to take better precautions in the future.
If you had affair other then "accidental" you need to find reason for it other wise it will be repeated again. If you decide to confess it will take your good will and 1 to 3 years of time to heat your husband feelings.

Answer 3

Um, you just confessed on a national forum....I would say it would be a good time to get an attorney and save what you can. Maybe you'll get away from the marriage with the clothes on your back.

U honestly don't think that he will not figure this out? None of his friends, family, co-workers, etc...won't read this and rat you out? You better hope not. good luck with that.

I forgave my ex for being unfaithful, but that is not always enough. Forgiveness isn't the same thing as tolerance. I did not put up with the behavior, but I forgave him and I hold no ill will for him or his future.

Answer 4

Yes, it will come out anyway, if it takes years the truth always comes out..if you made a conscious choice to cheat then at least own up to it..don't' try to make the other party feel bad because they are accusing you...why didn't you just leave in the first place, and then have your fling...you probably would not have been tempting them...most people want someone attached so they can play with no strings...grow up and face the music........

Answer 5

Yes, confess and see what he does, IF you still want to be with him , then you have a long way to prove that, If He chooses to leave you, then allow him too, Because what you did was something that He may never forget..
Confess now, or you will just be living a lie.

Answer 6

Your a cheater, you don't deserve anything. Yes, you should come clean, confess & expect to be dumped. If he takes you back, then don't expect him to trust you for a long time. If your cheating, then why the hell are you married for? you are not a good woman at all.

Answer 7

whoa..tacky!, so you cheat and expect him to forgive you. Well not so easy honey. Try to confess and and ask for forgiveness and if he really loves you he wil forgive you but he may not forget. Anyway you have to accept the consequences. So in future think before you decide to double cross someone!

Answer 8

It doesn't matter if all he has is suspicion. We're not stupid. We can recognize the signs. You have betrayed his trust, your marital bond, your wedding vows. You have demeaned both of you. Confess and beg for forgiveness, or put your head in the oven. How do you live with yourself?

Answer 9

hmm tough one. I think I would confess and let the chips fall were they may. If he decides to work things out put your whole heart into it and don't cheat again.

Answer 10

Hey What about this?Did ya get an STI? Yeah you best tell him before he tries to seduce you or have a fun time with y9u and he thinks he s safe, but you know he's not!That's the height of evil to get him killed cause its easier to be confused and unhappy and think of yourself only.