everyone is breaking up.. falling in love again. it's sad that people think they find true love when they are going to break up and find new love anyway. now a days, i can't trust any one and don't expect anyone to love me forever. and i mean.. once a couple marries, love seems to wear away and they're tired of the same old things. i don't want that, but i can't help but feel that that's what everyone gets.
2006-12-10 12:01:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
True love does exist. Forever love does exist. I am living proof. My husband and I have been married for 12 years, together for 18 years. We met and began dating when I was 15 years old and he was 17 years old. He is my soul mate in every way. After all these years with him, when we aren't together and I think about him, I still smile. Although I was 15 when we met, every really great memory involves him somehow. I have no doubt that every moment of my life prior to our meeting, was preparing me for our meeting. All of the heartache and pain, all of the disappointment and discouragement that I endured was making me into the person I am, the person he feel in love with. Every morning, knowing he loves me, gives me the motivation to get up and face the day. He makes me want to be a better person, because that's what he deserves. I want my two girls to grow up and marry a man like him, I want my son to grow up and be a man like him.
True love does exist. I't's not easy. You do have to work at it. There will be ups and downs. There will be lots of laughs and lots of tears. Just learn from every mistake, cherish every minute. Work hard to turn moments into memories. True love is out there, and it is worth fighting for. If you won't fight for it, then you'll never experience it. People today are lazy. When things get tough, they decide to move on and start over with someone new. Those people will never be happy. If you don't have the rough times with the one you love, then you'll not truely appreicate the good times.
It's out there....
2006-12-10 12:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is sad that several marraiages break up. When one falls in love, one likes certain things in the other person. The whole personality does not manifest itself at this stage. Differences can also appear on other counts that occur after marriage, such as bringing up children, career needs, etc. At this stage (some have loosely termed it the seven year itch), there could be a drift between two people. One cannot avoid this as no one can foresee what would happen to a relationship in future. The best one can do is to accept that everyone has his/her good and bad points, weigh the other on balance and then accommodate the other in matters of common concern. If both parties are willing to compromise, forgive and forget genuinely, love can endure. This is hard, but is achievable.
2006-12-10 12:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by greenhorn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither! I could never live with a person that I did not love. I have had the horrible experience of the latter ( ….a person that you love (but they don’t love you) for 24 years and 8 months. I kept all of my vows but she finally left anyway. Now I am happy living alone. It would be nice to be living with some lovely person, but there would "have to be mutual respect, honesty, love and sharing". Without love you have less than nothing. (Oh you do not understand that? - it means things are negative.) ♥ ∞ ♥ ∞ ♥ With much respect - Phoenix (Rob).
2016-05-23 03:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your truly in love..it does last a lifetime
sex gets better and better
his smile makes your day and your smile makes his day..
It helps if your his type also..and he your type..
things in common
whether he has patience for child rearing most dont..
talking together is something u look forward to not cringe..when even think of him.
Get someone who is alot like u..and has good temperment and has positive attitude toward life...
Good Luck..
2006-12-10 12:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is two kinds of love; passionate love, and compassionate love. My wife and I have been married for 30 years. We started out with passionate love, now we have a compassionate love.
If you EXPECT passionate love to last an entire marriage, you will be disappointed. It does not happen.
As for loving one person. I love my wife, I love my son, I love my wife's sister, I love her son and her daughter. We all love each other. Compassionate love. And we are all very happy when we are together. And I have known her sister for 30 years too.
2006-12-10 12:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I been married for 36-years now. We are going to finished the race together. Until death do us apart.
2006-12-10 13:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree. i have always said that im am only getting married once and thats it.
2006-12-10 12:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by latina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes is possible... Chances are one in a million....
2006-12-11 06:26:12 · answer #8 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋