Could be because she is in doubt about her engagement? You say her, hello and she says: my boyfriend and I... Then you ask her: Do you like pizza? And she answer: My boyfriend and I are able to eat two pizzas each... And so on.
It sounds as she is not sure on her engagement. Could it be?
Or maybe she is protecting herself, trying to avoid that the rest of people think that she is cheating.
The context here is that she express that, letting you perceive at the same time, that she has an interest on you.
But when you are very "close", she use again her boyfriend´s name and "shock" you.
And you dont know what to do (how to process) with that name.
Is that an excentric reaction because she is "torn between two lovers"?
Can somebody explain me, considering this context, WHAT´S IN THIS WOMAN´S MIND?
2006-12-10 11:58:15 · 6 answers · asked by Pepito P 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
She keeps talking about him the same way you all keep telling everyone who will listen about the big fish you caught or the big thirty point buck you shot. Hunt your prey, we hunt ours. :)
2006-12-10 12:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im engaged, and though i am excited about me getting married when i talk to guys i dont mention my fiance much, i just let em know im engaged and just continue to have a typical conversation. i only mention my fiance alot when i c the guy is leading to something else, i mention him so i can let the guy know that i love my man and that i will not cheat on him. maybe thats the same reason why this woman mentions her b/f because she's just trying to express the message that she loves him and will not cheat and ofcourse because she's happy with him. if she wasnt secure about her engagement than she wouldnt mention her bf much.
2006-12-10 20:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is very much in love with her partner, and im saying this using my own experience. When i met my boyfriend, i would turn every conversation into conversation about him. I thought he was wonderfull and loved to talk about him with other people, even tho i know it can be boring. We have recently broken up, but still, i love to talk about him, because im still in love.
So when someone say for example " i went to the cinema to see a horror movie" i say " me and Adil we loved watching horrors together". You know what i mean, they dont care, but because im in love, i love to mention him.
So leave that women alone, especialy if she is engaged. maybe she is little bit flirting with you so u might think, she is interested, but i think, it is just the way she talks, but loves her boyfriend very much.
2006-12-10 20:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is in love and you cannot fault her for that. It sounds like you are the jealous one for not having love like that or are engaged or married because if you have ever been through it-like I have-then you would totally understand how she feels right now.
2006-12-10 20:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by â¤??? ?å???? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just loves her fiance, and you are just jealous?!
i think that you need to learn a bit more english also. sometimes it's hard to understand the question. not being mean, just truthful.
2006-12-10 20:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing why are you worried? you are more into her than she is into you and your making stuff up. she keeps bringing up her fiance because she is into him and she wants to tell you about him.
2006-12-10 20:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋