me and one of my cousins or like step cousin are really close. now I think I have a crush on him! what do I do? he has a girlfriend and my friend likes him to!
2006-12-10 11:48:08 · 12 answers · asked by sam! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Anyone can develop feelings with anyone, regardless of anything. Its confusing when you mix family into things, so best to keep that one of those "wanted to, but never did anything about it" deals. You'll thank yourself later for avoiding that mess.
2006-12-10 11:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by guardian707 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep things as cousin for now, and when he gets married, just be that cousin with secrete benefits. Who would ever suspect cousins, you and him can get away with a lot of stuff. and when your married and you need a little something different than your old husband. just give your cousin a call. You see, he is their for a great purpose. You cant just do it with anybody. because people come and go. but he is your step cousin with benefits that will be around for a long time.
2006-12-10 11:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by caveman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with it being a "step" cousin... biologicaly it is ok. But as far as him having a girlfriend I would back off. You dont want to go there. It could only lead to problems that could be combined with family fights in the end.
2006-12-10 11:53:30 · answer #3 · answered by oregonnymph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh thats a biggie!!!!
just fall fro someone else,you what would they think of you? u know it's impossible to be in an open relationship with ya step cousin,..but then again,he's only a step cousin which is kinda ok.
it'l hurt to see ya friend end up with him(thats if it happens) but it'll save you the embarassment..
2006-12-10 11:54:24 · answer #4 · answered by gabi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think we all have that cuzin that makes us go " damn if we werent related...." but you have to keep it at a family way....Make him someone you can tyurn to in a friend way not in a romantic way ......Take yourself out of that position because all that does is hurt you.....With his girlfriend make sure she traeting him right and become friends with him....Also another way to get the feeling out of your head is to find a boy that is equally good for you or better...and about your friends liking him see it as an opportunity to joke about how u dont have to act all wierd around a guy that they are attracted to
2006-12-10 11:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by smartdancer07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he is your step cousin? He isn't really related to you by blood then. Its not weird but I'll tell ya its uncommon! Don't worry about it.
~Hugz
2006-12-10 12:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes a step cousin, then its ok....but just the fact that "cousin" is in the title at all makes it wierd
2006-12-10 11:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you think you have feelings for him, doesn't mean you should act on them.
First of all, he has a girlfriend. Honor that relationship.
Your friend likes him. Honor your friend.
He is a close family member. Honor yourself.
2006-12-10 11:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by metaphysical_kitten 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is jsut a crush I think my brother is hot, don't worry just some puppy love you will get over it.
2006-12-10 11:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by zoiy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need mental help. Then get a hobby.
2006-12-10 11:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋