Problems with women?

Question

And I know it's not just me..because I'm a nice, caring person, when I see people I always speak,but damn..it's like when I go somewhere femals are always rolling their eyes, I was just at walmart today, and one girl looked at me and said uhh, I can't really put the sound into words..lol.. and the female friends I do have, one is always putting me down, and I have one female friend, who don't call me anymore, out of nowhere,it's just wierd, anyone care to explain what to do, and why females act like that towards me?

I am a female

Answer 1

my friend you are just with the wrong crowd. You should never be friends with somebody who puts you down. Tell that one girl that she is a biitch and needs to piss off

Answer 2

sounds like you might be a teenager? All I can say is that girls can be pretty vicious when they're young. It won't be like that forever. All you really need is one true friend. Focus on being the kind of person that you want to be friends with and you will pull those types into your life. Ignore the other stuff because a true friend would talk to you if you did something to make her mad...anyone who isn't willing to put the effort into communicating with you isn't worth your time. In a couple years this will all seem like it never mattered...and you'll have real friends you can count on...as long as you stay a nice person.

Answer 3

Your question provided the clue! In communciation, there are three major components
1. The sender
2. The media or channel
3. The receiver
Logic says it is not 3 as others do not appear to have the same problem. It could be 2 and I suggest that you look at 2 as again others, using different channels are quite "successful" e.g. notice some of the beauties around yatchs and spped boats!
If you are limited in the choices of 2, I suggest that you look at 1 seriously i.e. yourself. Beggars can't be choosers and many beggars do not have problems with women!

Answer 4

I am a woman and one thing you will find out is that women are more trifling than men when it comes to communication and being nice because the first thing we are prone to do is look at another female and size her up to compare her to ourselves. Stupid but many people do it. Me, I dont. I dont care about superficial beauty. A person's heart is what I am concerned with.

Also, from the sounds of it, those ladies you are talking about never were your friends to begin with. Why would you want someone in your life like that who is so conditional in their dealings with people? I would be grateful they dont call me or come by.

My suggestion to you, be who you are. If you are a loving, caring person. Continue to be who you are. The world is full of enough negative, dark people. Be a light in this dark world. Come join me! :P

Answer 5

Not that this is a good reason to treat you badly, or judge you, but perhaps they are observing your clothes or make up. If some females think that you are attempting to look "slutty" (for lack of a better word) then they may immediately judge you. You may not be dressing at all in that way, but if you are in an area that you just dress different than the other girls, it may come across wrong. Not that it is your fault, or that you are wrong in any way. Some communities do not accept some one who is different in any way. It makes them uncomfortable when you choose not to conform to their ways or styles. Be yourself, you'll be glad you did.

Answer 6

difficult to say.

not sure if you're male or female.

If male, it's nothing, most women are like that. they tend to want something until they get something better. no offence but the female friends you had used you as a go-between. check and see if they have partners now, or 'new friends'.

If you're a female - then it's nothing personal, most women... are like that. There's a huge link between women and children, and it's not to do with birthing them, it's the whole psychology behind it all, **some** women are over grown kids who want to be adults when it suits them.

It could be down to jealousy, or the fact that you do/dont change with them, or that they see you (male or female) as a social outcast regardless of how nice and caring you are.

-the nice die young

Answer 7

You lack self respect and it is obvious to everyone around you. Grow some balls. Start by losing the friends that make fun of you. Work on saying no. And stop being a nice guy and start being a man. Women like men, no one likes nice guys.

Answer 8

What u should do is smile, or role ur eyes back. I am a female. And so females either do that because, one they think dat ur cute. And two they think that ur wierd. GIve the lady a nice compliment !

Answer 9

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Answer 10

ms. mojo gave u a good answer. you do not need mine. except your headlines should read. -- men and women -- problematic, why? why not?
there is no one answer there a billions. because we are not alike...even in our own species, sexes and outlook on life. so....it goes. it is part of the humanity and you have to seek and adopt and adapt. you are young --you have plenty of time. read, read and read more. and socialize...you will find your niche. good luck --and if you need more advice come back...but do not forget to give 10 pts. to the best response.