2006-12-10 11:39:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I say I;m going to the mall he wants details and know what time I will be home and If I dont come home on time he spaz out
2006-12-10 11:46:18 · update #1
I agree....
piss in his corn flakes.
2006-12-10 11:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is: what are you doing for your husband to keep you under "microscope suspension?" People get "suspended" for a reason... what is your husband penalizing you for? Tell us, what have "you" done? You married him, was he like that before?
2006-12-10 20:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by motherkc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is like this too.
My husband is overly jealous type of person, BUT he is highly suspicious of everyone and thinks the world is out to get him. He has done a lot of things he shouldn't have with other people so he thinks that I will do that stuff too.
talk to a lawyer and a therapist
2006-12-10 19:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a warning sign of domestic violence. Please educate yourself on the warning signs:
Are you going out with someone who?...
Acts jealous or possessive?
Is bossy, gives you orders?
Threatens to hurt you?
Verbally abuses you (puts you down, calls you names)?
Criticizes you, humiliates or degrades you?
Makes all the decisions in the relationship?
Has a violent temper, has weapons, has a violent history?
Won't let you have friends of the opposite sex?
Pressures you for sex?
Constantly wants to be with you and know where you are at all times?
Has a history of bad relationships and blames the "ex"?
Friends and Family have warned you about them?
You are afraid of them?
If so, you may be in danger of experiencing abuse within the relationship. YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
2006-12-10 20:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by silverside 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has the right to know what time you're going to be home and to expect you to be there at the time you say you'll be home. That's part of marriage, if you didn't want it why did you get married?
2006-12-10 20:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems that he has a reason for this. what type of suspicious activity have u been upto lately. answer this and u will be able to figure out how to fix the problem, he has just pulled a woman stunt on you and how does it feel. if you are going to be later than u expected what is the harm in calling and sasying he im running behind. it sounds like u are hiding something from us or him, possibly some naughty motel visits, huh,
2006-12-10 19:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Many say, what are you doing that would make him question you ! I say what is he doing? Sometimes this type of behavior is a cover for that person's "bad boy" behavior, particularly if he knows your whereabouts at all times, then he can do his thing. Just another perspective !
2006-12-10 20:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by bammaattheranch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that youre uncomfortable with how hes treating you. If you feel like he doesnt trust you, and thats the cause of the "microscope" youve been living under, discuss how you feel. If he keeps it up, firmly establish that you wont take living like that and MEAN IT!
2006-12-10 19:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What does he think you are going to do? Has he always been this way? If it is something new, ask him why. Tell him you don't like it and don't intend to live life this way. He needs to back off.
If he has always been like this, you need to set some rules. Let him know you don't like it and you want him to change. Tell him he has a week to show some improvement or you are out of there.
2006-12-10 19:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would like to help but I'm not sure what you mean? Could you ellaborate a bit?
2006-12-10 19:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by jayme1csw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋