I work with a woman who wears low rider pants and bends over on purpose so her butt hangs out.Except she's heavy and it's not sexy.Her belly hangs way out and she has stretch marks.She thinks she's hot and even warns us:my butts gonna hang out today.Should I say anything?Because it grosses me out.
2006-12-10 11:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by BubbyWubby 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Ask your human resources manager for suggestions without naming names. This may prompt a company wide refresher course on proper work attire or at the very least hopefully you'd get good advise on ways to approach the offender.
2006-12-10 23:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would tell your boss or supervisor about this inappropriate behavior. Since you said "us" I'm assuming it's affecting more that one person in the office, so suggest to them that they should complain as well. If enough people complain, your boss will confront this woman about it. Of course, things don't always work out so perfectly. If your boss does not believe there is a problem, then take this girl aside and tell her that her pants are inappropriate and that she's making herself look silly. She may feel embarrassed, but in the end she will thank you.
2006-12-10 19:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by I L♥VE YOU! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened at my work; one of my coworkers who is very overweight was in the habit of wearing very low cut short tops. A male coworker complained to Human Resources office manager anonymously. All of us women received a copy of the dress code and had a meeting reviewing it. The inappropriately dressed coworker was not singled out, so she did not feel embarrassed and she did start dressing appropriately for work.
I would not say anything directly to the offending coworker, but instead address the matter to Human Resources, if you have one, if not, I would say something to your supervisor.
2006-12-10 19:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look if you don't like what shes showing everyone has different taste.
2006-12-10 19:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by wofford914 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a blunt, anonymous note
2006-12-10 22:51:09 · answer #5 · answered by heyitsmee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should just ignore it. The more attention that you give her and her comments, the more she will do it.
2006-12-10 19:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I woul;d probably talk to her supervisor and stop looking at her
2006-12-10 19:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Alex P 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yell "Pull up your pants!"
2006-12-10 19:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by ♥TootsieRolls♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sing her the song...Your'e tooo sexy for those pants...Your'e tooo sexy for my kitchen...your'e tooo sexy for your shirt! Maybe she will get the hint!
2006-12-10 19:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't say anything, she might be comfortable with her appearance and you'll probably just make her self consious and shell probably hate you for it. xx
2006-12-10 19:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by JODIEXXX 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋