This girl I just started talking to says she's a lesbian. But she has a son that's barely a year,which means that not too long ago she was dating guys. She approached me for a relationship, but never tries to go out with me. She rarely calls.She goes to a lot of straight clubs. It could just be that she is not feeling me and I am not her type. Or maybe she could just really be bi or straight? Could it be possible for a woman to be a lesbian if she just had a baby with a guy less than 9 months ago?I know a lot of people live straight lives when they are really gay, but could this be it?
2006-12-10 11:31:14 · 6 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It does make a difference whether or not she's bi or lesbian, because if she's bi or anything other than lesbian she should have been honest with me.
2006-12-10 12:06:24 · update #1
She may not know what she wants. Just be a friend for now. lol
2006-12-10 11:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by green_womble 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What difference does it make? If she is bi or lesbian it makes no difference. If she is willing to be with you, it would only matter if she was straight. Do you want to be with her? That is the question. If you do, talk to her, not us. Remember whatever your decision, there is a baby involved. If you do not plan on becoming serious with her, you need to not have any involvement with the child. Trust me, it's for the best.
2006-12-10 19:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have a son and im a lesbian i perfer a women and i only go to gay clubs so im not sure she might be bi just talk to her.
2006-12-10 19:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, maybe she just had a relapse or something. It doesn't really seem like she's all that interested, does it?
I'm a married straight woman, but I find masculine women very attractive...I don't go for them, but I love to watch them. Would be open to a friendship with them. Anyway, it seems the gal isn't interested and it doesn't matter what her inclinations are. You are wasting your time. Godloveya, honey.
2006-12-10 19:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is a lesbian but also likes to have sex with guys. I also think that she isn't interested in you!
2006-12-10 19:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by alisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is unsure of her orientation. And she might just be looking for someone, who can make her sure of her preference. I don't think that person would be you, cause she would pay more attention to you.
2006-12-10 19:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋