if the sex stops for what ever reason,/work/illness/to tired--(yes i know make time and discuss the problem /blah blah blah the ? still remains will you yes or no!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-10 11:30:40 · 24 answers · asked by linda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sadly... yes
2006-12-10 11:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not, committment is more than sex. when you're young sex is a big deal. but nothing is bigger than true love,respect and loyalty . if you can't hack it with them for whatever reason then be honest, bow out gracefully. but don't humilate yourself or disgrace your partner by cheating. how would you feel if it was reversed to you. if you were sick,tired,work. at least make the effort to understand.before you take the step of cheating , you can't take that betrayal back or turn back the clock. be careful what you want. in our disposable society it's easier to replace things than it is to fix them, but that is not always the better solution,it could end up costing more than what you expected to pay. happy holidays.
2006-12-10 11:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by hummybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been struggling with this issue for some time now. My wife
is either too busy/tired/headache/etc. for sex. I have had opportunities to have sex with a couple of other women and I didn't but it was hard to say no! Very hard. So, yes I have considered it.
2006-12-10 11:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 46 I have never ever cheated in a relationship that just lowers you to the level of an animal.
2006-12-10 11:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by wofford914 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would never cheat. My ex was the biggest jerk I've ever met cheated on me constantly, gave me a black eye when i was 7 months preg. with our daughter, called me every name in the book, lied, threatened me, and I still wouldn't cheat. If you feel like you need to cheat then maybe you should just end the relationship.
2006-12-10 11:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i made an oath to forsake all others it would be dishonorable to break it. If you love someone i mean truly love them then you reserve yourself for them exclusively body and heart. If my wife had to withhold sex say for health reasons then i'd grab some KY and a towel because i'd rather be forced to pleasure myself than violate her faith.
Sex is important in a relationship but never as important as trust.
2006-12-10 11:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! I took a vow with my husband that I would be with him only. I do not want anyone else in my life. Sex without emotional attachment is meaningless, so I would not waste my time and risk ruining my marriage.
2006-12-10 11:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-10 11:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless I was prepared for the same treatment.If you want sex and he does'nt comply.and you want to cheat,at least have the decency to break up with him before you complicate matters and really cause harm to him by being disloyal.That would hurt,don't you think?
2006-12-10 11:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I COULDN'T CHEAT ON MY HUSBAND, THIS IS MY 2ND MARRIAGE OF 7 YEARS AND I NEVER KNEW TRUST UNTIL I MET HIM. I WOULD TRY DIFFERENT APPROACHES AND IF IT DOESNT WORK, JUST GIVE HIM HIS TIME........ NOW IF THIS GOES ON WAY TO LONG, THEN YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO TALK ABOUT IT. BUT IF THIS MARRIAGE IS BASED ON TRUE LOVE, CHEATING IS OUT OF THE QUESTION.. REMEMEBER TRUST IS # 1 IN A MARRIAGE, WITHOUT THAT YOU HAVE NOTHING.. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-10 12:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by kathy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no reason, then yes, but if i have been with the woman a while and she has a medical problem, then no, but if it is that she just don't want it any more then i will get my satisfaction elsewhere, cuz i believe if there is no physical/medical reason, then u must take care of each other needs
2006-12-10 11:37:30 · answer #11 · answered by keithy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋