My wife wants to have an open relationship with another woman. To me it seems like a good idea. How does everybody else feel? Also, if you have been in this situation, how did it turn out?
2006-12-10 10:43:52 · 13 answers · asked by bntsoutlaws 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I knew from the beginning that she was bisexual. We have had 3somes. She would not be hiding anything from me and I would be able to participate any time I want. And I'm not worried about her leaving me for another woman, I'm secure enough in our relationship to let this happen without worry. I just wanted everybody's opinion.
2006-12-10 11:00:10 · update #1
Can I have your wife's number???? Seriously, if you two have a secure marriage then let her have some fun. She's not out looking for another man so that should tell you that you have nothing to worry about. Any girl on here that says eeeewww gross obviously hasn't explored their sensual side. A woman gives another woman all the things that most men don't do(or don't want to do) The softness, the sensuality, and the best part is IT'S ALL FOREPLAY!! My husband allows me to have open relationships with other women and we have never had any problems. Yes, he gets to participate any time he wants and there is never any secrets between us. I tell him everything. I have no desire for another man. My husband is everything I want IN A MAN!! Go for it and have fun. She's in it for the physical side. She's in LOVE with you. Of course, be careful but let her play with the girls!
2006-12-11 01:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by hotwheelsxxx 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well your a man so of course this open relationship with another woman sounds like a good idea. You need to know though that she maybe doing this for you. Having another person coming in between both of you can start some trouble. Did you go into this marriage knowing she is bi sexual? You also need to know she might get caught up into this other woman and you could be history. You should think about this situation before you do so.
2006-12-10 10:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem like a good idea, but then again it may not. I had a friend who was in a similar situation and in the end the wife left th husband for the other woman. She said that she understood her better and that she was more compatible with her than him so it was a complete disaster. But this might not be the same, maybe she just wants to expand herslef idk just my 2 cents hope its all good
2006-12-10 10:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Vader 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my opinion is that if you are ok with it then who cares what everyone else thinks..Having ur wife with another girl may be good for you but could create some problems. You may begin to feel like she wants all girls all the time...GOOD LUCK
2006-12-10 10:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by tms,trf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend just went through this and it scared him for life. He told me he was all happy at the idea, and then they all got into it and instead of it being the fantasy that he and society created, it was a horrid and violent thing. Think about this one hard before leaping. The other thing to think about is how would you feel if it was with a man? What if she left for that man? I hear it is harder to go through when your partner leaves for a same sex relationship. Be careful.
2006-12-10 11:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you would be OK with her having sex with another man (think about it first before deciding) you will probably be OK with her having sex with another woman. Otherwise, you may be currently over-fantasizing about what it would actually be like, and when the time comes you might get jealous.
Just a thought. Have fun and remember to be careful.
2006-12-10 10:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by klb_72 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in this case if you think thats a good idea then its a good idea. shes your wife. i just think that if my husband were to say he wanted to do something like that i would start worrying.
thats just my opinion.
good luck and have a good night
kristy
2006-12-10 10:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she can bring other women to your bed for 3somes
but that is as far as it goes..
2006-12-10 10:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a lucky guy as long as you do not get left out>>>> or left period
2006-12-10 10:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she beautiful, thats a good idea, how nice your wife is. you are one lucky fella.
2006-12-10 10:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋