i've been using dildos quite frequently these few days, so i was wondering if i'm still a virgin?
2006-12-10 10:14:58 · 32 answers · asked by Crazygirl 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
has any boy ever tocuhed u in a sexual way?i think ur nopt a virgin anymore if u have sexual relations with the opposite sex or yeah...
2006-12-10 10:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by explicitnights 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
The hymen (or maidenhead; or in slang cherry) is a fold of mucous membrane which surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. It forms part of the vulva, or external genitalia, and is present in all females at birth.[1][2] The most common formation of the hymen is crescentic or crescent-shaped, although several other formations are possible.[3] A woman's hymen is destroyed when she gives birth; she may be left with remnants called carunculae mytriformes or the hymen may be completely absent.[4]
The hymen has no known anatomical function. In societies which value chastity, the greatest significance of the hymen is a traditional belief that an intact hymen indicates a state of intact virginity. However, it is not possible to confirm that a woman or post-pubescent girl is a virgin by examining the hymen.[5] A physician routinely checks the appearance of the hymen of baby girls at birth, and again during all future pelvic examinations. In cases of suspected rape or sexual abuse a detailed examination of the hymen may be carried out, however the condition of the hymen alone is often inconclusive or open to misinterpretation, especially if the patient has reached puberty.[6]
The name hymen is from the Greek for membrane.[7] Hymen is also a name for the Greek God of marriage and weddings, Hymenaeus, but this name has a different root.[8]
The hymen is not normally damaged by playing sports, using tampons, pelvic examinations or even straddle injuries.[18]
Once a girl reaches puberty, the hymen tends to become quite elastic. It is not possible to determine whether a woman uses tampons or not by examining her hymen.[19] Only 43% of women report bleeding the first time they had sex; which means that in the other 57% of women the hymen likely stretched enough that it didn't tear.[20]
It is rare to damage the hymen through accidental injury, such as falling on the crossbar of a bicycle. Although such an accident may cause bleeding, this is usually due to damage to surrounding tissues such as the labia.[21] It is so unlikely that an accident would damage the hymen without injuring any other part of the vulva, that damage to the hymen alone, described as an accident, would be seen as a strong indicator of sexual assault.[22]
So the answer is no; but take due care in future...
2006-12-10 10:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Lawrence of Arabia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you're still a virgin. Until you switch out the dildo with a penis, you will still be a virgin.
2006-12-10 10:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people view losing your virginity differently. But the majority view losing your virginity as when you have sexual intercourse with an actual man. Using a dildo might break that layer of skin inside of you technically, but it does not take your virginity. Masturbation is very healthy!
2006-12-10 10:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by therapist 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
look at your vagina in the mirror, if there is a piece of skin that goes between your whole then you are still a virgin. You could have went around that piece of skin with the dildo. Also I have heard that only a mans penis can break that piece of skin. Its not confirmed though
2006-12-10 10:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Strawberry 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No u are not. Being a virgin does not mean that u have to have sex with a guy. As far as u enjoy the dildo, no virginity for u, ur out of the virgin squad.
2006-12-10 10:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Bella 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Hell NO babe! your sure aint no virgin anymore. thats one way to prevent desease though. keep that dildo cleaned regularly and follow the operating manual (smile)
If a male masturbated and ejaculated without ever having sexual intercourse would this mean he was no longer a virgin?
Anyway here is one forum analysis from the teenager world and I read it-its interesting.
2006-12-10 10:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by Roman S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, generally speaking.......you can say, "YES" if a man ask you have you been with a man before.
But if he ask you have you ever had sex, you have to say "YES" with myself and my hymen could be torn.
But technically speaking you are NOT a virgin since you have had some form of sexual activity. Without mentioning it, If you were to go and be examined by a Gynocologiest......it would appear that you've had sex, if your hymen has been torn. The hymen must be in tact. Don't worry.......women who are actively inolved in sports often have a torn hymen due to the physical stresses. What can you do? Don't stress about it.
2006-12-10 10:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless the dildo has a man attached to the end of it, yes.
2006-12-10 10:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well I haven't had sex with a woman for 14 years now. does that make me a virgin. HA!
Intercourse with penis and male attached.
Your still a virgin. Just stop advertising your fetish.
2006-12-10 10:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the context of sex, yes you can only lose your virginity when you have intercourse. foreign objects don't count.
however, it could mean you don't have a hymen anymore, so you probably won't bleed the first time you have sex.
which is really a bonus.
2006-12-10 10:19:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋