As he was walking down the street he was hanging onto the other mans hand. There was another girl walking beside him. We have talked about having a threesome, but I told him I wasn't ready. He says that he is not anything but straight and that it was just a friend he hasn't seen for a while. I do not know what to think.
2006-12-10 10:10:32 · 17 answers · asked by Lori-Ann R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-12-10 10:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by kk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember grade school? Little girls can hold hands and boys get the heebie-jeebies when they do? That's the natural reaction. In the middle east i have seen lifelong male friends walk arm and arm, as a show of bond with one very close male friend, but if your man isn't from Saudi Arabia and wants another guy in the romantic picture-his barn door is swinging both ways, at least partly, i would assume.
Next time ask the guy you're gonna get physical with about his fantasies BEFORE getting naked. Or better yet, wait until you meet the right guy, get married and do all the crazy stuff with someone you're committed to.
2006-12-10 10:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, being a straight man I would not walk down a road holding another man's hand. Actually I really can't think of a time that I would hold another man's hand... it kinda creeps me out just typing about it... Excuse me I need to go wash my hands now....
2006-12-10 10:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by CJ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 02:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lori Ann R, it sounds to me like you are more concerned about your boyfriend's sexuality than he is. He may be on the up and up with you, and he may be bi. If you want to find out for sure you have to make it absolutely safe for him to tell you. You have to create an atmosphere in your relationship where he feels safe and he won't be judged by you if he is bisexual.
If he is, than you have to decide if you are okay with a bisexual boyfriend or not. Because in the long run, if you are not that is your problem, not his. He is what he is and you either have to accept that or move on to someone you are more comfortable with.
2006-12-10 16:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because men usually don't show affection for another man like that, they were taught and usually keep feelings in and women are the only ones that show affection like that because we were taught that and to be the softer sex and this society does have a double standard on that, its okay for women to show affection like that but not for men, the double standard is wrong, but that's the way it is and I have observed lots of men and none of them have ever showed any closeness to another man/friend or brother and so forth like that.
2006-12-10 10:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean just because a man holds another mand hand doesnt make them curious bout men, so u shouldt be concerned if he says hes just a friend believe him, Because if u have to doubt him then that means u dont trust or believe hima dn their is no relationship if u dont trust adn believe him.
2006-12-10 10:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by beautifulpersona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is odd. I would maybe look into it more. Have a deeper conversation. Does the threesome involve another women or man if it is a man he might be bisexual
2006-12-10 10:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he wants a 3some and if he's holding hands with a guy, then, i'd say he's bi..
should you be concerned? well, not necessarily. if you are getting close to being ready for a 3some, then sounds like the idea doesn't totally turn you off.
just be aware that he wants to be with more than just you.. so if you are looking for an exclusive relationship, you won't likely be getting it from him.
2006-12-10 10:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The holding hands thing is suspect.
But when you say threesome...we talking MMF or FFM?
Honestly, if i were in your shoes, hell yes, id be concerned....to say the least.
2006-12-10 10:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by SweetMahogany 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girls can hold hands...... guys can't AND all guys i know that are straight would NEVER hold hands with another man.
So umm yeah i'd be suss on him. Sorry sweet but you've turned him
2006-12-10 10:13:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋