I Am a very single lesbian and I recently joined a group in my city for lesbians. Now i have met some very interesting people, and had alot of fun. Now me and this one STUD became very Close in the group and we are always kicking it and im Always at her house and spending the night. Now we have been kicking it me and her for almost 2 months now almost every other day. And ive now began to have strong feelings for her. I dont know how to come to her with it due to the fact that she doesnt like plus size women and she loves mixed girls that are petite and i am neither, and shes let it be known. But also i dont even want to tell her because i dont want to loose a good friend, and we are real close friends. So what should i do , Im afraid of rejection and dont know if i should come to her with it or leave it alone and just be her friend? i am in desperate need of advice on what i should do.!!!
2006-12-10 10:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by beautifulpersona 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no by kicking it i mean just hanging around each othe alot, going out, talking on the phone, sleeping in the same bed, and that it she tells em all her secrets. But we have never been intimate.
2006-12-10 10:14:02 · update #1
I assume by "kicking it", you mean having sex. So, she either likes you in that way, or she is using you.
2006-12-10 10:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes these things take time. You really have to get to really know this person a lot. I am in a sort of simular situation but I've known my friend and soon to be other for 2 years now and she is petite and I am heavier but at first I've told her that she propbably would never be interested in someone like me but she said it wasn't about looks that it was more important what was on the inside. She now tells me that she loves me.
2006-12-10 22:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Noclue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry, but you will have to lose weight. She just likes you as a friend. If a plus size woman came on to me when I thought we were friends, i would be very upset. You're going to lose your friend. Quit thinking like this and find someone else to pursue while you achieve your fitness goals.
2006-12-10 18:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by glowe126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not attracted to you in a serious way...too bad she is totally leading you on. GET AWAY! Just remain friends and for GOD's sake do not sleep in the bed with her it is just a ploy to get her some attention
2006-12-10 18:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Namaste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's willing to sleep in the same bed with you, and willing to spend all this time with you, chances are she's possibly looking for more than a friendship too. just come right out and tell her you want more and see what she says. otherwise, you'll never know!
2006-12-10 18:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she just wnats to be friends, but you have to tell her, or ask her if she has anyfeelings for "anybody" right now.
2006-12-10 19:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋