I am married and my husband is 23. When he was 19 he was sleeping with a married 32 yr old women. He said she was a large lady and he wasnt attracted to her in any way, it was just sex. He was like her toyboy. I am discusted by this and hate the fact that a married selfish lady got my husband. Do you think this is wrong what he done?
2006-12-10 10:00:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's silly to waste time,disgust and even thought about the past.What different does it make at this point ? I should ask,why are you jealous ?
2006-12-10 10:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong but it's in the past.
As long as he isn't sleeping around now, you have nothing to worry about.
I've found it's best to not discuss who you have slept with and encourage your husband to do the same.
I know of a few people my boyfriend slept with before he met me and I am grossed out by it to be honest but there's nothing I can do, it was a mistake he made way back when.
The best thing to do is just move on and like I said, don't talk about ex's or people you two slept with in the past if you don't want the details.
2006-12-10 10:11:00 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
incredibly, in case you're asking the question, curiously such as you're already somebody who ponders issues previously leaping into them. perhaps you're on an analogous point with him and not adult men your age? There must be some extra scrutiny because of the fact adult men who decide for severely youthful girls folk each so often have a administration time table to boot. They sense youthful girls folk are greater incredibly "molded". If everyones motives check out, i do no longer see an argument with it.
2016-10-05 03:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world. Try dumping him and finding someone who hasn't slept with anyone. It's hard. My point is just because he slept with an older woman is no reason dwell on this subject. You have done some things in the past that he probably would not like as well.
2006-12-10 10:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must forget the past and look the future. it was only a sex 4 years ago. now she s 36 years old and isn t dangerous for u. only claim ur husband...
2006-12-10 10:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by legend_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is wrong period even if the man says he is not attracted to her. Well something excited him somehow. I would be furious if my husband cheated on me. There is no excuse or any reason for cheating.
2006-12-10 11:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2006-12-10 10:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by scotdic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong what he did she was married and he knew it.
2006-12-10 10:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with that? The only wrong thing is that he told you.
2006-12-10 10:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing that can be done about it now. You weren't with him back then.
2006-12-10 10:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋