i told my husband that i don't love him anymore and he still ask me when am i'm going to open up what cani do to make him understand ?
2006-12-10 09:54:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
start to file for divorce_
2006-12-10 09:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have not given him a genuine reason and he may feel that you are just going through a rough patch in your marriage. You don't just turn off your love for someone, there is always a reason !! You need to sit down with him and tell him the reason that you feel the way you do and make him understand !! If that doesn't work perhaps you should consider leaving as you are the one that wants out of your marriage, obviously he does not want out or he would be gone already !! Best of luck.
2006-12-10 18:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There must be a reason why you dont love him and maybe thats what you need to find within yourself perhaps with the help of a counsellor.Dont be hasty in throwing a long term relationship away unless there is good reason.....I had the reason but it is bloody hard especially if there are children involved.There really isnt enough detail to give much more of an answer...good luck
2006-12-10 17:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to stop having contact with him unless there are kids involved. He is not getting the hint and is hoping you will change your mind. You need to just move on and tell him you are no longer interested in him anymore. Tell him you love him as a person but not as a husband.
2006-12-10 19:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you love him anymore? Are you having an affair? 9 out of 10 times; that is why someone says those cruel words to the person they made marriage vows to.
2006-12-10 23:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are unable to talk to your husband in a manner in which he can relate to you, this is probably why your seeking a divorce in the first place. I guess he will just figure it out when you file for divorce and he is served with the papers. God bless****
2006-12-10 17:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to be with him then you will have to divorce him. Are you sure you can't go to counseling to try to work things out. If he is still there then that must mean that he loves you. Man that must suck for you to be loved by your husband.
2006-12-10 17:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty gutless of you to say something like that and THEN expect HIM to take action on it.
If that's how you really feel, then do something about it. If on the other hand, there's some glimmer of hope, work towards it. But to expect him to do all the legwork for your decision (especially one like this) is the heigth of selfishness on your part.
2006-12-10 18:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see here is the deal you decided it was over. he most likely thought it was going good. get your divorce papers moving and if you havent move out of the house. then things can start seperating.
2006-12-10 17:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait for him to leave the house, YOU leave the house and then file for divorce. If that doesn't get it through his head I don't know what will.
2006-12-10 17:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey maybe you need to look at him and how lon were you married are yo sure you dont love him or just some things about him there could be something you just arnt seeing if you know what i mean think about it he elly loves you
2006-12-10 18:02:43 · answer #11 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋