have you ever suffer from a lost of a baby?

Question

i have my son was born november 19 2006 and died this morning at 5:42 am he died of a syndrome called SIDS sudden infant death syndrome he was born at 5 months he wieghed 3 pounds when he was born and died at exactly 4 pounds...have u ever have lost a child before

my baby was still in the hospital and why do sids happen

Answer 1

IF YOU REALLY LOST A BABY YOU WOULDNT BE WASTING TIME ON HERE POSTING QUESTIONS TO TOTAL STRANGERS!
GROW UP!

PEOPLE...DONT BELIEVE HER....SHE HAS TOLD SO MANY STORIES THAT SHE CANT KEEP THEM STRAIGHT!!!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApQUeB3e8hSYwgw_nxnwNtjsy6IX?qid=20061122142444AAICn02
YOU WILL SEE SHE SAID SHE HAD HIM ON "FRIDAY NIGHT" BUT IN THIS QUESTION SHE SAYS SHE HAD HIM ON THE 19TH WHICH IS A SUNDAY! A MOTHER WOULD KNOW WHEN SHE HAD A BABY!

Answer 2

Yes you never will get over it but you will learn to get on with your life. Every day you will remember and when you have children and they are at the table you will always know that there should have been that one other child there too. Was your child born premature. Why was your child at home and not in the intensive care unit weighing only 4 lbs. Our baby weighed 9 lbs and died at 6 weeks. Some where I read that the Sids decreases if babies double their weight. All the other children were on monitors as was one of their cousins because of heart irregularites. Once they doubled their weight they were ok.

Answer 3

Yes. I have. My daughter was born November 20th, 2004 and died January 28th, 2005. Her technical diagnosis was undetermined, but her pediatrician believes she died of SIDS. My heart goes out to you and your family. If you need to talk to someone just email me at [e-mail]

For more information go to www.sidsfamilies.com or www.battlesids.org there is also a yahoo support group called SIDSMOMS

Answer 4

you at the instant are not "nuts", I comprehend your question completely, oftentimes, i hit upon myself working on a non secular point, i'm not perplexed and it does not worry me in any respect what human beings think of. This existence is non everlasting, that actuality is a convenience in that throughout the destiny, i'm going to be reunited with those I enjoyed and lost, which contains my cherished animals. i'm residing a transcendental existence... i understand that may not "domicile", yet i could make the terrific of it on the same time as i'm right here. My wish is that i've got lived a existence deserving sufficient to attain an superior point... i don't prefer to return back right here...that is purely too gruesome, inspite of efforts to make it in any different case. Blessed Be Brigid

Answer 5

Ive miscarried, but never lost a child I gave birth to.

Iam truely sorry, there are few things worse in life than a mother robbed of her child.

Preemies are the most likely to suffer SIDs related deaths, because of their underdeveloped respritory systems, and muscles.

If the hospital let you take him home at that weight, you should take the case to court. Except in the RAREST of conditions, babies, ESPECIALLY ones born before 35 weeks, are not permitted to leave the hospital until they reach 5 pounds.

I personally believe that we will both see our lost children again, when this life is over. Until then its important to continue your life knowing you cannot have changed anything.

You will find something similar to get yourself through this time.

Answer 6

OMG.... I am so sorry for your loss. I gave birth to a still born child 5 years ago. Everything was fine until I was doing a parent-teacher conference in a high school in Southern Ca. The father was mad because I would not allow his child to pass. And he beat the living daylights out of me. I lost my little girl while I was getting beaten up. We donated her body to UCLA medical school so that the students could work on a "newborn". She is our little angel looking down on us. We are now proud parents to a 3 year old son and have another son due in Jan.
God bless you! And take each day at a time. The loss is great but you will heal in time.

Take care and have a wonderful holiday season filled with all the people who you love and hold dear to your heart..........
Jennifer

Answer 7

I have lost a baby through miscarriage & it was very hard to deal with. I'm really sorry to hear of your loss....there is no greater loss than one of a child. If you are having a hard time dealing with it, I would suggest counseling. There are a lot of great books & information on the internet about dealing w/ grief etc...It is hard, but you will get through it, it will take time, but it will happen..God bless you!

Answer 8

I have had two miscarriages before but have never lost a child after giving birth to them...I`m so sorry for your lost , I can only imagine how you must feel right now...God bless you and be with you always..

Answer 9

I've never lost a baby but I have many friends who have. While I've never experienced your grief, this is what I know from others and from my personal beliefs: your son is yours eternally and even though there's little to comfort you now, like you said, he is your little angel and remains in your heart and soul always. Always. Always. When your sorrow is almost too much to bear, please console yourself with the knowledge he is now being loved up high, and also taking care of you, his mom, forever. I extend my sympathies and love to you over the loss of your precious son.

Answer 10

I am so very sorry for your loss. My cousin lost her baby a month ago. He was stillborn. The loss of a baby is truly heartbreaking. Please take care of yourself... and if you feel like it might help, there are support groups for grieving parents. I am sure that your OB can point you in the right direction. My deepest sympathies.