for some reason latley i feel like i am a failure at everything and i don't know why i mean i have a college degree i have a good job i have a wonderful husband and a beautiful baby girl. everyone says it is because my daughter is only three months old that i am having these issues but i just don't understand i don't want them to be there. and i do not ever feel like this when i am with my husband ever when he is around i am really happy and thats the way it has always been but when i am with my baby or by myself i just feel liek a failure and i don't know why can anyone give me any imput on this cause i am running out of options
2006-12-10 09:21:23 · 4 answers · asked by bjames_0050 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
The baby blues, you start to doubt that you are going to be able to handle the new role or even if you were every good enough in the first place. Please talk to your doctor about this because of hormone changes and such it could be temporary but in the mean time you need to live a productive life and be mental there for your baby. Good Luck
2006-12-10 09:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by fyrechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your doctor. It sounds like you have postpartum depression. This is perfectly natural and normal. All new moms feel like they're doing everything wrong in the beginning. It will take time, but eventually this feeling will pass. Your doctor should be able to give you more info on how to ease the stress of this feeling.
2006-12-10 17:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by granola.tree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably have a tiny bout of the baby blues, post pardum derpession. I had it with my second baby, but I always had horrible visions of the baby falling or me falling and dropping her. Your hormones are just out of wack. If you need to -talk to your doctor, it's pretty common and they can give you stuff to help you get thru it. Mine went away on it's own!
2006-12-10 17:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like post partum depression...Talk to your doctor soon..Good luck and best wishes to you!!
2006-12-10 17:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋