Im a lesbian and still a virgin, I try my best at the saying "sex can wait..masturbate" but it gets harder and harder. I've had a girlfriend but we are not sexually intimate. I want to know if there is a way that i can masturbate without actually engaing in sexual intercourse with another person?
2006-12-10 08:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by Miss Murder 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You can masturbate and have an orgasm all by yourself. In fact the best way to learn about your body and what feels good is to masturbate. Since you are so unsure about how to do this do a search for female masturbation and read up on it.
2006-12-10 08:55:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a little imagination, just about anything can be used. Just remember to keep it clean, anything that is going in or on your vagina needs to be clean.
Also, you'll want to be able to clean the item, so it will be ready for next time.
NEVER insert anything that can break-off, like a bananna, or something. You wouldn't want an embarrising trip to the ER!!
The kitchen is a good place to start, a lot of utensils have very interesting handles. Some are nice and thick, others have a lot of ridges or bumps. Also you'll get a kick out of seeing somebody use it after you have... :)
You can also use the tub, turn on a GENTAL stream of WARM water, then lay under the spout with your feet up on the wall. Position your vagina right under the stream, it feels wonderful!!!
An adjustable shower head works just as well. You can also use an electric toothbrush, not the brush side. Place the back of it against your clit, and turn it on.
You can also hump your way to an orgasm. Just stack a few pillows, climb on top, squeeze with your legs so that they are firm, then start thrusting back and forth. If you have a stuffed animal, you can ride his face the same way. A bear or pig, or something with a snout adds extra pleasure.
You can add even more pleasure by inserting something in your butt. Start small and work your way. You can use lotion as lubricant. Your finger works well, you can also use a tampoon or something similar, just remember, nothing breakable, and you need to be able to remove it when your done.
Let me know how it works out for you.
2006-12-10 12:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, virgins can orgasm. For many women, penetration has very little to do with orgasming.
And masturbation, by definition, means not engaging in sexual intercourse with another person.
Just get yourself somewhere comfortable and private, and explore your body's responses. If your turned on and you find a sweet-spot you'll know it. The body will know what it wants, and although it may take some practice and time, you'll learn how to pleasure yourself eventually.
A good, easy way to get off is to use your shower; just lie on your back with your legs spread, and aim the stream to hit your genitals; there is no self-touching required here, although feel free to play.
Moreover, I strongly believe that you should learn the ways your body responds to sexual stimulation by yourself before engaging in sexual activity with anyone else. Receiving your first orgasm from another person can create unhealthy dependencies, plus sex will be better for both of you if you know what you like and can communicate that to whoever you're with.
2006-12-10 08:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by ATumorNamedMarla 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweety.
Get the swan or the rabbit ears vibrator from adam and eve or something. Those with clit stimulators are awesome. the others aren't too good so save your money and buy a nice one.
Or buy a shower massage with a long hose (we had to buy the hose separate and change the one it came with) so it is long enough you can lie in the tub or sit on it's edge and use waterplay on yourself. If you need an excuse for it, you like to be able to rinse your hair while bathing.
2006-12-13 12:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation has nothing to do with sexual intercourse....masturbation doesn't even come close to losing your virginity! What are they teaching you guys in school?
Orgasms often have nothing to do with sexual intercourse. Masturbating will give you a clitoral orgasm......most girls experience these long before they lose their virginity. I suggest you start figuring out how to please yourself before you even think about letting someone else touch you.
2006-12-10 08:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-12-10 08:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...virgins can orgasm..now a days most women give themselves their first orgasm through masturbation. just look up more specific information on the internet.
2006-12-10 08:56:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's the definition of masturbation. anyone can orgasm, although it's easier for some people than others. play around with yourself...you'll figure it out.
2006-12-10 08:57:20 · answer #8 · answered by ltrainhazmat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what the HQLL kind of name is that?
Should I try?
How is it that you don't understand the word Virgin?
It is never having intercourse and just that.
So play and get a sharing partner but reject us seniors we like to have fun at M/M.
2006-12-10 09:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can. If your own fingers aren't doing the trick, try sexual toys. There are all kinds for different stimulations. www.xandria.com and www.adameve.com
Good luck.
2006-12-10 08:58:37 · answer #10 · answered by aweety69 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋