How long will it be untill the shitty days end?

Question

Please try to be as accurate as you can.

I'm not talking about the weather, I'm talking about life being shitty since September 2005. Ther ewas a brief break in September 2006 but the shitty days are back now.

I have high hopes for 2007 but I also think that I'll be disappointed when I find out what a crap year it was.

Answer 1

They will end when you choose for them to end. I don't mean for that to sound flip or unfeeling. It's that I recall times in my life when I asked that question and I just have a feeling you are about the age I was then and I didn't know I had a choice in the matter either. I thought it depended on the circumstances and when the circumstances changed then the days would get better. I've found that just isn't true. When a hard thing is over, a happy thing comes and there will be another of both sooner or later. I finally learned not to live my life "in between."

So, I will be as accurate as I can about how to do this:

In my opinion, one of the very greatest freedoms we have is the freedom to choose our attutitude. You may choose. Truly you may. We can't always choose our circumstances and some days are just going to be hard and hurtful and that's part of living for all of us. But WE don't have to be hard and hurtful because the circumstances are.

Are you sad? Talk to someone you truly trust and tell them all about it, leaving out nothing.

Are you angry? What is the source of the anger? Can you do anything to change the circumstance? If not, then choose not to let the circumstance take charge of you.

Afraid? Then NAME it. Put a name to that joker and look at it. Have someone with you while you do that if necessary. It can be pretty scary to look at what scares us. But do it and you will be surprised to see that monster is not as big as you thought. Once you know what it is, you can find out what to do about it.

Lonesome? Don't have friends or buddies? Then go BE one. Visit someone who is lonely or can't get out. Doesn't have to be a big visit. A couple of minutes just to say hi is good. That can be someone in your own house. Yes, we all can get lonely even though there are people around us. Do a simple kindness for someone - pick up a piece of trash off the sidewalk, etc. No, it really isn't silly. Try it.

Are you confused? There again - tell someone you trust. Tell them just how bad it feels and how it all doesn't make sense to you.

In other words, any emotion that is controlling you can be brought back under YOUR control. YOU own your feelings. They don't belong to that person or that circumstance or that fear. Go get them. I know you can. I know that because a long time ago I, the most negative and fearful of people did it. And I did it because someone showed me that I could and stood with me while I did.

Days are just days. Some are easier than others but none are set apart to make us miserable. What makes today so hurtful for you will not have that power on another day if you don't give it the power. I have great confidence that you will be telling this to someone else one day. (Oh, and I surely hope you will be able to it better than I did.)

I wish you well. Linda

Answer 2

are you talking literally shitty? Just kidding. I'm going to assume that you mean the bad weather maybe? If that's what you mean then I hear that it's an El Nino winter and we're in for a long haul (lots of rain). If you're just having a plain ol' shitty day then maybe take a nap, take a walk, talk to an old friend-something to get the bad mood off your mind. I had a pretty shitty day yesterday and things are going pretty good today. Hang in there!

Answer 3

Civil unrest will lead to uprisings, and civil war will break out in several countries, leading to overthrow of governments. The Female Fire will be quite devastating. Many states will be preoccupied with border disputes, provincial clashes, cross country terrorism and disintegration of existing territories.

The year 2007 is a year of countless gossips and endless arguments. From the general public to the topmost leaders, there will be disputes everywhere, at all levels. People will have verbal duels and fights and nature will have it's own conflicts.

Rumours will haunt the governments, leading to major differences within. Political parties will be greatly polarised.

There will be conflicts within the doors also, meaning disruption in family harmony and marital relationships. Unlike last year, this year will see many separations, even though this is also a good year for marriage and child bearing. There will be many cases of young men marrying older women.

People will have their privacy intruded, confidential information stolen, sold and exposed to the public glare. If you have anything to hide, the chances are that it will be found out this year.

Self-confidence shaken, many will entertain suicidal thoughts. On the positive side, shady characters, sinners and wanted terrorists will be caught red handed. Family disputes and juvenile delinquency would be severe. Crimes committed by children especially are not to be overlooked.

Large public rallies, countless agitations, raised tempers, high tensions and traffic congestion will mark this year as ugly. The year has the potential for situations to gather great speed or burn out of control.




Accidents are also likely to occur to objects or structures situated in great heights like satellites, bridges, high-rise buildings, mountains, giant wheels, etc.

There will be many disasters pertaining to fire and water: fire disasters, volcanic eruptions, wild forest fires, fire arm explosions, bomb attacks, even possible nuclear threats; earthquakes, avalanches, heavy rains, torrential floods, unceasing sea winds, reflux of sea water, defeating atmospheric frosts and melancholic dampness.

The world population is more susceptible to microbic and viral infections, especially those that affect the abdomen and intestines. There will be many problems related to digestive disorders, food poisoning, blood circulation, heart, nerves, eyes and hypertension.

There will be strange troubles arising out of burials and burial grounds. Religious tensions, racist riots and cult conflicts will be on the rise and in some cases, they will trigger small scale wars or group suicides. Superstitions and manipulations will rule.

Drug trafficking will grow by leaps and bounds. Wildlife slaughter and bird hunting will increase. The struggle against pollution will intensify.

Answer 4

In 2008 . You'll think 2007 was a great year.

Answer 5

They will never end as long as you're in this frame of mind. Positive thinking & Cognitive Behavioural Therapy is the only answer. I feel for you.

Answer 6

No one really knows the answer to that question. Only God knows and he will let us know in the final days. All I can tell you is that the time is near. Repent.

Answer 7

you think its bad know wait till the dems are in power

Answer 8

What do you mean?Weather,your mental state,the economy,Iraq.You can't be accurate with your question in the way it is stated.Clarify please.

Answer 9

to long

Answer 10

At least until bush is gone.