I would like to try and hook up with another man, but don't know how to try. Any ideas?
2006-12-10 08:42:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Before you acted on your impulses, I would really think about what you are about to do. There are bisexual guys out there who do not think that having sex outside of marriage is cheating. I've got new for you: It is.
I know it is difficult not to be intimate with a man, but for right now, think of other ways you could satisfy your urges -- in private. Good luck.
2006-12-10 15:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I was jest 14 My friend Gary asked me to give him a BJ I told him no that the only way that I would give him head would be If I was a female or I was dressed as a female. He gave me some of his older sisters clothes to wear witch I put on and became his secrect girl friend for the next 3 years. I knew then that I should have beenborn a girl. I am bi but not gay. I would never go to bed with a man dressed as a man. I dress act and think as a woman but I also like to have sex with females when I am dressed as a female. I am on hormones.
2006-12-10 10:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by maidinheels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Everyones answers so far are really good ones listen to them ,cheating is cheating,BUT talk to your wife you may want to think about an alternative lifestyle, maybe she would be interested in trying a swingers thing with another bi couple that way you would be honest she will be involved and maybe it is something you really dident want and can still be ok with your wife and maybe she has an interest in a bi thing and it works out all the way around,but no matter what this way you will be honest and not cheating..just my thought, good luck to you.Bye Deb
2006-12-10 09:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by deb s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Don't. Cheating is cheating, and if your wife ever finds out about what you did, you will have harmed her greivously; she truly may never recover. If you think this is something you need to do, absolutely must for some reason, then you are bound to tell your wife what you're going through. If she's willing to let you experiment, well, ok, but if not you're going to have to decide what's more important: the feelings you might have for other men, or the love of your wife.
2006-12-10 08:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by kevin2760 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything in a haste, please. You wife will be heartbroken if she found out you hooked up with another man. I've read stories of married men who hooked up with other guys or hired male escorts, and lost it all... including their house! I think a lot of replies to your post are really good, sound advice. Don't you know what happened to guys like ex-NJ governor, Jim McGreevey? Eventhough he's apologised to his wife, family and the NJ community, people still hold a grudge against him, and his ex-wife, Dina, has not forgiven him yet. You don't want to be in his shoes or any other guys who've betrayed their wives in this manner.
2006-12-11 04:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by xander 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider addressing these feelings with your wife. Tell her that you still love her, but some times have these urges.
Depending on how open-minded your wife is, possibly she could be open to experimentation WITH you, instead of you being secretive or eventually having an affair.
I'm not saying that you would, but a person can only go so long with out satisifying their natural urges.
2006-12-10 09:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by Karah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking yourself if you really want to be married. Before you go out & cheat on her, tell her it's not working out. You'd be a better man for owning up to the fact it's not working. Don't hurt her. Just give her the respect of the truth of your marriage.
If you did do that, go & find a gay bar in your local area. Maybe just see what's there. You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Just be yourself.
2006-12-10 09:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ida 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should realy check ur morals in life first dude coz if ur married to a woman and now u want a man you have a problem frnd you should tell ur wife first and see how she feels about it. i think actually i know ur gonna destroy a few people close to u dude.Remember one thing in life u cant have ur bread buttered on both sides
2006-12-10 08:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by srryass 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont respond to feelings and run from temptation before its to late. Your going to lose everything you have in your marriage. Dont be a rock.
2006-12-10 08:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Kathryn W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
www.men4sexnow,.com Happy trails! BIG LOVE, Kevin
2006-12-10 08:45:41 · answer #10 · answered by sckreet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋