If you were out one night and met a person you were attracted to, would you have a one night stand if you were already married?
2006-12-10 08:34:29 · 31 answers · asked by duncabby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am a little ashamed to say that I had quite a few one nighters when I was married. I think most people do nowadays.
2006-12-10 08:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
No way would I have a one night stand on my husband. It is not worth it. When a person gets married they promise to love and be faithful to one another. Why go out with someone to get gratification which could lead to a pregnancy or worse an std which you bring home to your spouse.
2006-12-10 19:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would very carefully have a one night stand if i was not married.
it would have to be with someone who could really deal with a one night stand.there men and women that is not ready for such an act. men should see this as some one seeing them special to give themselves to a person in such short notice. but some men don't think they are worthy of such an act.some men feel a woman that have one night stand are whores. i agree if this is something they do more then once every 10 or 15 years apart. i believe maybe once or twice you will meet or might meet some one you will give yourself to and not really know that person. when this happens the man who thinks bad of the female, is a man that got nothing going on himself. he rally should feel special that some one would give themselve that way and walk away. think about it.
2006-12-10 16:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by BLUE 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO way! i have kid's and if i was married and unhappy i would divorce/seperate before meeting anyone else. Yes when you grow out of love you may be attracted to other people but sleeping behind someone's back is unexcusable...:)
2006-12-10 16:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by kel s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Because No. 1: Its called cheating. No. 2: If you are married and wanted to respect your relationship you wouldn't do it. No. 3
If you are even thinking about it......You are probably going to end up doing it.
I reccommend if you are even thinking about having a one night stand...then you should rethink your marriage in the first place. Could it be that you did not want to get married in the beginning?
Be smart...Think About it.
2006-12-10 16:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Renita 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No way! Regardless of the situation cheating is cheating. You'll loose respect for yourself and destroy the intimacy in your marriage. It's destructive and dangerous. Would you want someone to do this to you?
2006-12-10 16:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Indievoter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...I am married now...but yes I have done it in the past and then I would kick him out..I got what I needed and don't need to talk about his personal problems...I don't cheat on my husband because I love him...I am only answering your question when I was single.
2006-12-10 16:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. It isn't that hard to resist. Just make nice and get away from the person if you are having a hard time resisting the urge.
2006-12-10 18:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No.
But if I wasn't married or in a relationship, then yes of course.
Its all about respect. For your partner and for yourself.
2006-12-10 16:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what my wife might want, all women I date the wife has to approve of and be able to join in if she likes.
2006-12-10 16:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋