Just curious
2006-12-10 08:24:00 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well it depends on how many times he goes...i mean if he aint bringing anybody home then your fine but if your finding phne numbers and things like that then somethings not right
2006-12-10 08:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by ashley c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't consider it cheating unless he won't let you go with him or is hesitant to. Then he has something to hide. I wouldn't let my husband go by himself, I'd go with him if he wanted to go though. Most strip clubs don't allow the guys to touch the strippers. But if he goes everynight or seems to have an addiction to them or porn or goes there and spends all his money, then yes it's cheating. It means he isn't satisfied at home so he has to go to other means to satisfy himself and that he'd rather look at all those other females than you. So ya then it would be a problem.
2006-12-10 09:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by InternetJunkie83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it's a form of cheating. My husband doesn't go because I do everything for him....anything he wants sexually, I do. If he ever wanted to go to a strip club I would feel as if I didn't measure up....but that's just my 2 cents.
2006-12-10 13:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by dallas_chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would in a way. Men are men and do that but I never liked it at all. I tried going with my boyfriend and that didn't work out very well. One of the strippers saw him and came up to us and said "Kenny you have to stop calling me at 6 in the morning. I am still sleeping at that time because I don't get home til 4". You should have seen the look on his face! I was pissed then but now I laugh when I think back about it. Needless to say we are not together anymore.
2006-12-10 08:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I go to a strip bar with my hubby but if he goes there without then that means he is sleeping in the couch. But I dont consider it cheating as long as he doesnt do anything else with the striper.
2006-12-10 08:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it's not cheating as long as he doesn't touch. Most club don't even allow touching the dancers. Would watching porn be cheating?? I don't think so! Consider going with him next time, make it a date. Have fun!
2006-12-10 08:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Aztec 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no try stripping at home for him and see if that stops him from going .personally i think that they like the shows that the girls put on they are some wild ones they do **** that you dont hear about every day go check out a show with him .
2006-12-10 08:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends is he touching, kissing going home with them....if not then no it doesnt hurt to look we are all human its like telling you you could never look at another man. So what they are nude I bet if you could sometimes you wish some of the men you see were nude.
2006-12-10 08:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by littlemama 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men have a problem with porn.... if its a problem then I would consider it a mental cheating... but if its just fun with the guys, then no.
Ask him...
2006-12-10 08:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by abbienikol 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife goes with me from time to time, and she doesn't feel that it is.
2006-12-10 08:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋