Okay, where do I start? There's this boy in my school that I really like. He's cute, funny smart, etc. Let's call him... Dan. We're actually pretty good friends, although I don't see him after school or anything. We get along really well, and when we're together, we sort of 'click', you know? He sends me mixed signals when I try to flirt with him. So I have been crushin' on him for about a year, when his brother (Dan is a triplet) asks me if I like Dan. I was sort of embarassed, so I told Dan's brother "No, I don't like Dan". I still like him, but he thinks that I don't like him. I don't want to tell him that I have a crush on him, but I want him to know that I might like him. I know it's a long story, but yeah, that's my lovelife. Any tips/suggestion/ideas/comments? Especially from peeps my age. (Although anyone's welcome to submit.)
P.S. I'm only 13, but I don't want to hear any of that junk about how teens can't fall in love, or it's just an infatuation, yadda, yadda, yadda.
2006-12-10 07:03:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
why is your question in the pregnancy section?
2006-12-10 07:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Lol.
Well, I'd say, keep hanging out with Dan. Don't worry about his brother.
If a guy is going to date you, he's got to be smart enough not to ask how you feel through other people!!!
Obviously teens can fall in love. That said, I do hope you are level headed about these things. My aunt fell for my uncle at 13. They have been married for 50 years. That said, most relationships don't last, even ones after 20. Does it mean don't date? No. It might mean, consider the consequences of what you do.
Love vs infaturation? Heck both happen at all ages. Look around. Lots of divorces, affairs ect.
Take care of yourself. I'm sure it will work out with Dan. If not, you don't have to believe me but there are tons of fish in the sea and you have plenty of time to find them.
2006-12-10 08:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you should get some guts and TELL him. What's the worse that can happen? Who know's(you won't know unless you try). You just might end up with a boyfriend ;). Oh, "Dan's" brother might have been a messanger for the real "Dan", so you better hope that his brother didn't tell "Dan" that you "don't like him"!
2006-12-10 08:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by calypsocaper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK im 13 and you should bring up a subject invloving talking about liking peoples or say "hey we should all name the peps we like at school it would be fun" I know it chessy but hey! It worked for me been with my man for a long time now but anywayz when its ur turn say "Dan" or if you don't want to say that just bring up the subject around his bro's and they are bound to tell him! If you need anymore advice\help\tips w\e you know how to contact me.
2006-12-10 08:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by hot-rocker chick-punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 03:22:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i am also 13 i wont tell u that u dont no what love is or anything like that because u most likey do no what it means well anyways i think u should just tell him how u feel if u cant do it in person do it in a note.
~jeff~
2006-12-10 07:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by jeff 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow. Just go to Dan and tell him you like him. After that, thing become easier.
You can acturally get sick from holding secret too long (love sick, that is) Don't tell him you love him, it would scare him away. Just tell him you like him.
2006-12-10 07:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by geekdemon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay... the category is pregnancy and parenting. hmm,
well anyway i would suggest you just be straight up the guy its been a year don't you think it's time you stopped fooling around ? also, maybe he told his triplet something about you, why he asked, he just may like you too.
Next time be sure you're in the right category
2006-12-10 07:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow thats wierd there is this dude dan that is a triplet and goes to my school hey im a triplet 2 kool well i say go 4 it
2006-12-10 07:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by dsfwe w 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
im 13 also. just ask him out. no biggie. just explain to him what you did because you were kinda embarresed or whatever and he might not even listen to his brother and just listen to you.
2006-12-10 07:57:38 · answer #10 · answered by pmsgurl2012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and tell him your true feelings.
2006-12-10 07:43:20 · answer #11 · answered by pgenius3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋