me n my girl have been 2gether 4yrs after last mounth she broke it off. Then two wks later she wants back in. I open my heart n go back to were we left off. Then after coming back from a friends house she left me agian. Now after 2wks apart she calls n ask me for help, to keep her company. I go n we meet up we still are hanging out like a couple n i know she still cares for me. I play alittle hard2 get n she is in2 it. As am about to leave she is talking n i suddenly kiss her n tell her will she date me n this time lets take it slow, She agreed. after making out some more i ask how are we going 2 work this out she said "take it slow" I ask if sex was ok?"sex is ok" she said. she gets on the train n i tell her i love her she says the same thing, she calls me later that night to see what i am up2 n when we get off niether of us say "i love u" . Is this the first steps to taking it slow? how do i do this? I still love her. She told me we should not tell any1 for at least a wk?HELP me!
2006-12-10 07:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i dont think there is amy one ealse. When we were apart the 1st week i did not hear from her then i finally called her. I ask why? she said she felt differnt. She still wanted to be friends but we need to be apart for a while. I said fine. Two days later she calls me and tells me she was wonding if i could keep her company while she waits for her train to come. The rest of the week she calls me to see what is up. the night before she calls me and tells me she misses me and i acted like i was fine with it being over. and she said we'll talk about it when we meet. So after i get there we talk and we seem fine we talk about everthing. And out of nowhere i kiss her and i ask her to go out with me. she agrees and we both agreed to take it slow. She asked me what i wanted for xmas and what am i going to do this week end. she got on the train. she called me later that night. I am trying to give her space so i promised myself not to call till monday. Any addvice?? We never played games be4
2006-12-10 07:03:07 · update #1
She'll keep on calling me 2 see what i am up too. I havnt called her i want to see if she'll go out w/ me to night but i dont want to push this. What are the rules with taking it slow. Can i ask her tonight or should i wait till monday?
2006-12-10 07:04:45 · update #2
I think she is playing games.
thank God you dont have kids.
I would leave this and start seeing someone else or take a break from dating.
2006-12-10 07:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is toying with you. You might want to look more into this relationship and see what is really going on. There has to be other men in her life and she is keeping you on a string just in case it doesn't work out. Do not be a doormat I say move on and find someone that is not going to play games with you.
2016-05-23 02:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better if u guys dt call each other for awhile..then when u feel that u really miss her and be like woooow I haven't seen/talk to her for 2 weeks!!!! (or something) ..then u guys hook up again and see how it feels..u gotta give each other some space and also.. I think it's better if u dt have sex..
GL!
ps: if u keep saying u r goin to take it slow but then call each other like 3 times a day.. that's a really bad start! ...Space!!!
2006-12-10 07:15:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she wants a yo-yo to buy one at Toys R Us and you get out there and find a better girl.
You need some self-respect, dude.
2006-12-10 07:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I think I can answer your question in the form of a riddle:
What do you and invertebrate life forms have in common?
2006-12-10 08:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is a HO....
2006-12-10 07:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋