I know that looks like a stupid question but I'm really not sure. I'm attracted to to both men and women. I want to be with man and not a women but when I think of being with a man I can't picture being intimate or kissing, but I can with a women. I've had a one time experiance too when I started high school a few years ago. I don't want to think like that but I can't help it. I don't have a problem with anyone that is gay but I don't want to be that way. I want to get married and have a family. It's just this whole comfort thing. Feeling more comfortable intimately with a women over a man. I'm just really confused and would like all your insight.
2006-12-10 06:50:41 · 13 answers · asked by kabec87 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are human, quit trying to label yourself based on who you are attracted to. You are you and I think that is great.
2006-12-10 06:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thing is, the only person who can answer that is you.
Maybe you are just going through a sexual identity crisis.
Truth is, you'll know when you are with the right person for you whether or not that is where you belong.
If you find yourself with a woman and you don't FEEL like it's right, it could be that you belong with a man.
And vice versa.
It's not about "wanting to be" this way or that... if that were the case we'd all take the easy way out (meaning avoiding society's constant badgering and mistreatment) and be w/ the opposite sex.
We just find that doing so would be betraying ourselves and personally I'd like to betray the entire population of the world than myself.
You'll find your way. Don't be so quick to find your label. Life will show you the way.
2006-12-10 06:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it's ok to be a bit confused. after 24 years, i finally got into my first relationship, and i was very nervous and intimidated with the entire physical and sexual thing. i still consider myself straight, but the fact that being physcially intimate with a girl was uncomfortable, well, i often wonder if there's more to it. i still want to be with a girl, but often wonder if i should try being with a guy just to see how if it does anything emotionally. hard to say.. but i think it's ok to be a bit confused..
2006-12-10 06:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are. That is okay though. I had a freind who was that way. She loved this girl. One day she went up to her in public and started kissing her. That is how she could finally tell. She then had sex with a guy and was over her problem. That is what you could do.
2006-12-10 07:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by kaylah247 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you are still young and are figuring out who you are. Allow yourself to have experiences, but remember the intimacy of a relationship usually stems from things like, conversation, compassion and caring for each other.
2006-12-10 06:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by meow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if you want to experience other women,eben after you're married,it's ok,it's just who you are and it's what you want to experience. Just let nature take it's course.
2006-12-10 08:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are bisexual because you still have sex with men and you still with a man you just like women too thats all.
2006-12-10 09:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be with a man ok thats what god wants ok
2006-12-10 07:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by jabari s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have a problem.. your just experimenting.. and seeing what you like.. sounds like you just might be bi.. to me..
2006-12-10 09:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say u r straight. you are going through insecureity with men.
2006-12-10 07:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋