I asked my close female friend if she FELT anything towards me at all, ever. More than just a friend. (She knows how I feel about her) She replied:
"I never feel nothing for anybody and every individual means something to me in their own unique way.Thats all I'm going to say". MEANING???
If we were just friends WHY wouldn't she just say so???I asked her to be blunt and that I wouldn't hate her for her reply. Help!!!Advice!!!
She then said there are too many ppl in the world who are 2 faced and selfish,who don't value individuals like she does.Is hurt that OTHER ppl don't value ppl the way she does.MEANING???
What she thinking\feeling???Will she speak to me again? What do I do now???
Surely as FRIENDS, she would let me know if there was no chance at all....NO???Is she scared???
For xmas I thought I'd send her a xmas card and a small teddy-just saying merry xmas and happy new year.
Would this be ok??OR Would she throw the card\gift in the bin??She appreciate it??
2006-12-10 06:23:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
MORE INFO:
We go to dinner, lunch together and for drinks in the evening. We’re ATTRACTED to each other, flirt with each other, we’re in touch practically everyday, can only open up too me, feels very comfortable with me, enjoys spending time with me,we trust each other etc.
2006-12-10 06:23:21 · update #1
....you know what!! im a female myself...but i tell you what we are very complicated and full of s!*t. Im pretty straight forward myself...and I think she means that she doesnt want things to gfo further than friends (in a polite way). I think she thinks your a special person to her, but will not be good if its more than friends. Dont think too deeply about what she is trying to tell you...you may just think too deeply into things and end up hurting yourself. take it with a pinch of salt. things happen for a reason. and if things are meant to happen they will....its as simple as that. but for now...stay friends. keep things as they were and enjoy your life mate! with or without her. GOOD LUCK
2006-12-10 09:23:23 · answer #1 · answered by sarahscholtz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
Her answer a bit of a contradiction- she feels nothing for anybody,yet there are too many people in the world who don't value individuals like she does? Thank God that there are,since she doesn't seem to value you!
You're not paying for all these nights out,are you?
Quick= grab a tape measure and check the length of the string that she's got you on.
Sorry,but any relationship of any value involves each person being honest with eachother,otherwise you're both on a very shaky foundation. She either values you as a friend (or more) or doesn't. Get a grip on this one- you're body clock is ticking,and there's no time to prat about.
2006-12-10 06:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by misterviv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she has dificulty trusting people and has been hurt before. She could have feelings for you but is scared to act on them and it seems from her reply that she wants to keep her options open. Send her the card and the teddy but give her a bit of space. She'll soon realise if she misses you and wants you around. But remember if you do end up together that getting to that stage was difficult enough, don't expect the actual relationship to be any easier!
2006-12-10 11:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by noisymilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes playing u..are u telling me shes the only person who treats ppl rite in this world???...ok so shes bin hurt b4.. we all love and learn and if u meant anything to her at all she'd set u straight after all isn't that what good friends do?? u sound like a really good hearted soul who cares 4 there best friend..but sometimes u have to set something free to c if it returns 2 ur love...I'm not sayin' dump her rite away show her ur Strong, give her the Teddie and say no more as there is no more u can do love is simple and if she misses the attention u give her she shall b in ur arms come new year..good luck.. neva sell ur self short..x
2006-12-10 08:35:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop analysing this person. She dosen't want to date you is the honest answer. It sounds like she has had a lot of hurt in her life and being a good friend to her is what she needs right now. Accept that she dosen't want you as a boyfriend and enjoy the friendship. Open your eyes and start looking around, you never know who else is out there...
2006-12-10 07:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a headache just reading this! you mean something to her but I dont think she wants to date you, sounds like shes found a mate and a good one she feels comfortable with. dont over analize your friendship. BUY HER THE GIFT YOU MENTIONED FOR XMAS SHE'LL LOVE IT.
2006-12-10 06:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by mummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...............
2006-12-10 06:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋