LET HIM START THE FIRST NIGHT AND YOU DO WHATEVER HE WANTS OTHERWISE HE WILL SAY THAT YOU ARE WELL EXPERIENCED.
2006-12-10 15:46:34
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answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7
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Take a nice relaxing bath and ask him to do the same. After the wedding and the reception and all that, you both would be exhausted. Then, depending on the custom, either wear your traditional dress with the ceremonial milk glass, or wear some sexy outfit. Then when he arrives, offer him the milk glass. Talk for a while about things - about each other, desires, how life should be and all that. Then when he starts making advances, reciprocate and things will just flow. On the other hand, if you husband comes right to the point and wants to just do it, then ask him to be gentle (if this is your first time) and just enjoy. If it is the first time for both of you, it won't be that great and so don;t get disappointed with the performance. Also, since wedding and reception would be pretty taxing, take it a little easy and try not to complete all positions of the KamaSutra in one night :)
2006-12-10 05:47:59
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answered by l_kur 5
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Well assuming that you are asking about the first night after the wedding (sex) and since you have to ask one can only assume that you are a virgin and good for you that you have waited for your wedding night, all Ill have to say is that its pretty normal you will get the butterflies the nervousness and all the other normal things that one gets when they are in love. To get rid of some of that champaigne usually helps and puts you in a better mood, some even say its an afrodisiac??? dont over doit you will have a headache and you want to remember your wedding night good or bad. Its very important to communicate to let him know what feels good and what doesnt and you do the same for him. Good luck.
2006-12-10 05:45:34
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answered by justananswer 1
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There are many ways you can spend your first night with your husband. I know that me and my husband had two things going on. We had are wedding day and his Marine Corp Ball. We did are wedding then went to the ball and after that we just went back to the hotel hang out and spent the rest of the night in each other arms. No one can really tell you how your first night should be it is up to both of you.
2006-12-10 06:33:44
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answered by semperfiwife18 1
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X-rays show damage to bones; if she has a soft tissue injury, that doesn't show up on an x-ray. However, any time a dog is worse, you call the vet back and tell them. They need to investigate further. If she's on pain meds, she shouldn't be worse. Pain meds aren't always the best idea anyway because if the dog doesn't feel any pain at all, they forget they're hurt and they're liable to injure themselves all over again. Phone the vet, if you don't feel confident they're doing the best for her, find another vet. Perhaps a vet who does chiro and/or acupuncture on dogs - they work extremely well for dogs in pain.
2016-03-17 23:34:33
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are arent tired and exhausted keep up the communication, since both of you would not have slept with anyone except with your mom, your heart will be racing waiting for the inevitable to happen. Once it happens its the beginning of the many nights unless you have a bad headache. Good Luck.
2006-12-12 02:41:44
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answered by Kushal-Know All 2
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im not married dont plan to for long for fear of that awkward night for one thing but i mean just cuz ur married its not the passport to lose ur virginity...the first night is special and its not reserved for intercourse physically....u can make love by talking cant u
if its a love marriage u guys have come far...if its arranged then u still need to get to kno each other
so if its love then talk about ur relationship and how happy u are that this day has come at last---share ur childhood stories or sumthing enjoy each other's companyy---id talk to my husband all night just sit in front of him and tell him all the things that have happened in my life so far....tell him all the things things i havent told anyone---thats bc i would never agree to an arranged marriage
allow him to do the same--dont be shy with each other--tlk like old friends laugh and enjoy the night
if ur arranged awkwardness is natural but still talk to him get to kno him...if he stares at u in the wrong way and places thas a bad sign...he's not interested in talking to u but sumthing else..
MOST IMPORTANT IF U FEEL UR NOT READY TO GET PHYSICAL DO NOT LET HIM TOUCH U THE WRONG WAY
men tend to think that once they are married they have ownership to a womans body...be a strong lady show him ur interesting to tlk to and hopefully he is too...
its ok to be random...but about getting physical it doesnt have to be that way..unless u guys want to---both of u---if thats the case it will happen of its own accord---or it could also happen that u'll be sooo tired that u'll just fall asleep...
w/e the case congratulations on getting married and good luck
2006-12-10 12:02:49
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answered by Anonymous
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hey pls notice this every person say that do sex with ur husband on first night
but i want say oppsite to everyone dont do sex just remember some good,funny and loving incidence which happen before marrige with u when u meet together think abt talks u do before marrige with ur husband mam sex ke liye tho poori zindagi padi hai but khushi ke pal yaad karne ka time bahut
kam hai bye take care and best of luck.
2006-12-11 02:43:54
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answered by gaurav c 1
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Try to exchange your views and all feelings with each other which helps to enjoy all of your nights in the remaining life.
2006-12-13 23:14:38
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answered by sriram_rahi 2
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Sleep
2006-12-10 21:01:16
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answered by Cligztraizt 1
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Do what you are comfortable with and tell him not to rush into things. You read "Kamasutra" and allow things to happen naturally. Best wishes for a happy maried life.
2006-12-10 06:35:31
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answered by StraightDrive 6
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