why would we get depressed when we break up ? eventhough we know it will be better for the both of us?

Question

i wasn't treated the way i deserve to be treated by my boyfriend that i really loved and gave everything i had... i helped through so much hard times but some how some people don't recognize what others do for them.. i don't know how can people just get blinded or ignore or deny that people are doing a lot of meaningful things for them.

Answer 1

Its normal to go through a grieving process after a break up. Even if you know the change is good, you still have to give yourself time to heal. Time to deal with the anger, and the bewilderment. Some people just never understand how lucky they are. It'll get better dear, hang in there.

Answer 2

When you've invested so much time and love into someone it's hard to just not go through a time of depression :: That's understandable but after that phase is over you realize you did what was best for the both of you :: You knew that you deserved better and he just was not the one :: You will find better and he will treat you as you want to be treated. You'll get through it, It's not going to be easy but you'll get through it :: How do I know, because I'm going through it now:: I just had a realization the other day that I made the best decision because I wasn't treated the way I should've been at all...

You'll be fine!

Good Luck

Answer 3

you're right. it's hard to believe that anyone can treat somebody so badly when they owe everything they have to be there for them. anyways, people get depressed when they break up....'cause they KNOW it was the right thing to do, and that hurts them. sounds stupid, but that's it. knowing that in the end the relationship turned to nothing, can sometimes make someone feel bad after the relationship ends. and sometimes you're depressed after break- ups because you really did care about that person but couldn't make it work. i hope this helped.

Answer 4

Some people are canavian and they just like to take advantage from anothers one kindness So wrong but it does happens so I do want to tell you do be like that anymore just because you care too much about a person if a person is so good to you so go ahead and be to good to that one too...People like to take for granted the anothers one because is what they like to do...Be far away from that kind because they really don't care about you at all Don't matter what you do for them they just won't care about you trust me on that I been there so I speak from my own experience...