Is it stupid to wait until marriage to have sex??? What is the opionions out there?
2006-12-10 05:25:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
yea if i was u dump him and il make love to ya 24 7
2006-12-10 05:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it depends on what's important to you. If waiting until marriage means waiting until you're 18 years old, that's a lot different that waiting until you're 32 years old or older.
Personally, I think it is extremely important for two people who "intend" to spend the rest of their lives together to know that they are sexually compatible. There is so much more to sex than just sticking it in and humping until he's finished. Some people just don't connect well in the bedroom. This is something that I would really want to know ahead of time. The connection isn't about experience and skill, it's about attitude toward sexuality and toward each other.
2006-12-10 05:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not stupid to wait nor is it stupid not to wait. The important thing is that you do what you feel is right for you. If you are being pressured to have sex, then don't. No one has the right to pressure you into making such a big decision. If you decide to have sex make sure you use protection. Birth control pills will eliminate the risk of pregnancy but not STD's so be sure to use a condom.
2006-12-10 05:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by Lachelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't stupid. It's all about what a person believes. If a person feels that they are ready before they get married then they should if not don't and shouldn't be pressured into it. I didn't wait and I don't regret it.
2006-12-10 05:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is another issue of Abstinence. Its to be honest your option. But it shouldnt be your option if your under pressure. If your under pressure the man is going to just take what you have and leave you. If you weren't and it was your true option to have intercourse then if you believe it is so then do it. But be safe. One for of Protection is not always going to help. So strap up with a condom and don't forget to take birth control pills. 2 is always better then one. Especially in this case.
2006-12-10 05:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by BS1017 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, it is not stupid...it is the right thing that you should do. because if you do have sex and then you get pregnant, and you are not married...that will cause a big huge mess when people find out. so,no, it is not that stupid. and plus, when you are married, you know that it is the right person to do it with.
2006-12-10 05:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥•Softball•Chick•♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally, i don't think it's necessary. why wait until the wedding night? all a weddding is supposed to do is signify and celebrate that you love someone and are ready to spend your life with that person and make it so that that decision is legally recognized, but you should already know that you feel that way before you make the decision to be married. if you know that, then why wait?
2006-12-10 05:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by miss_coco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it definitely is up to the person in such a situation. It's all up to how you feel about it really.....if you're a person that looks to religion heavily then maybe it's a good idea to wait but if you're less concerned with religion...
2006-12-10 05:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by whatnot_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each so often it take a ROCK for some human beings adult men to ascertain that there is that distinctive somebody. and that i myself hate to assert "Play it cool", yet that's what you will would desire to do. Are you going to college? if so, perhaps the substitute in atmosphere will help. you will discover new acquaintances. New love hobbies. and perhaps somebody who's greater effective than 'Lot'. the toughest element is to do is to 'enable pass'. He in simple terms must be acquaintances.
2016-10-05 03:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey its your body and mind if you want to save yourself till marriage that's your conviction think of all the girls who have been nothing more than a come dumpster and a year later you are nothing more than a feather in their hat plus you learn their character cause if a guy not willing to accept then probably he is not husband material so be careful and follow your heart
2006-12-10 05:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by theessenceofrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my cousins friend waited until she got married and she told her that she was so happy she waited.When you have sexy and you get pregnant its less likely the father would stay,but if you were married its a happy occasion because your already married and you can trust the guy who will father your child.
2006-12-10 05:29:19 · answer #11 · answered by MaMu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋