My x wife, the mother of my child want's me to give up my parental rights,and to stop paying chils supprt.
i've never been late on my child support,she simply does not want me to see my child.i have no criminal history, i do not use drugs or drink. I would not mind, because i know i would get to see my daughter anyway.
2006-12-10 05:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by jar0228r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My x wife has moved about 9 times i have to say she a little wacky. i pay her very good child support but,she spends alot of money on maintaining her self. she cant get it through her head there is nobody there to support her anymore.Can i go back to court and take my daugher from her, even if my daugher would rather stay with her mom!
2006-12-10 15:15:47 · update #1
The only way that could happen is if she found another man to take the legal responsibility of the child and you agree or she finds you to be unfit as a father. But otherwise, no, she cannot do that.
2006-12-10 05:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I know it is legal to give up your rights to your child and not pay child support in the state of texas. But you also have to remember that if you do this, you will have no say at all on what goes on in your childs life. You will not be able to see the child . You can not change your mind at any time and just reverse what you did. So before you decide make sure that you really dont want to be in your childs life. I do believe that the child should have you in there life. The mother is not thinking of the child but of herself and that to me is selfish and wrong so I do believe that you should stay in your childs life. Because the mother obviously is not interested in what the child needs or will want in the future... Good luck.... Mandy is the name by the way
2006-12-12 09:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a legal right to see your child and if you have never been late on any payments you can simply request to see the judge and tell him/ her what is happening. Then she must comply with the ruling or go to jail. The only way that she can keep you away from her is if it is court ordered.However I am confused ,though. In one part of your question you say she won't let you see your child. Then at the end you say " I would not mind;because i know i would get to see my daughter anyway." So do you or don't you get to see her.Or do you just not want to pay child support.
2006-12-10 05:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even consider giving up your rights? Once you give them up you are not entitled to see your child at all. In my state, the only way parental rights can be given up is in the event of an adoption by a step-parent. Once the adoption takes place the former parent is a thing of the past, no contact!!! It does not just relinquish the other parent from paying child support, but also stops any parental rights, you will no longer be the father of your daughter, somebody else will. I hope you see the bigger picture......think before acting!
2006-12-10 05:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what they want, or what you want!!!! Its what your child wants and needs. Once you sign those papers you are @#$%#@. They can move any where and not tell you there leaving. If you disagree on how your child is being raised you can not do a thing about it because you just signed away any rights you had.If they don't want your money put it in a special account for your child.You have to fight for your daughter. You dont want your child asking why you gave up on them.Tell your ex-wife to go to hell.
2006-12-10 05:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by rush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not give up your parental rights. How could you even think of doing so??? Just pay your support, your daughter needs it. And spend time with her.
2006-12-10 05:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look your ex wife may still be angry with you for what ever reason and want to hurt you. But you need to ask the question, is this what is in the best intrest of my son? I doubt it. your son needs you to be in his life and if she is not letting you see him then take her to court YOU have the right to see your son and be apart of his life its your right. There are to many boys now days growing up without thier fathers plaease don't let your son be another one espically to apease your ex.
2006-12-10 05:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kristina S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to be some reason for her to want you to do that. If you are who you say you are then she has no way to make you do that. Just keep being a good dad and love your child.
2006-12-10 05:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by BROKENHEART 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not about what the ex wants, it is about what is in the best interest of the child.
become functional parents, for the childs sake.
2006-12-10 06:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, wht a strange question. I would probably go see an attorney that specializes in this thing.
2006-12-10 05:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋