i think my best friend hates me because i just said that i like her ex-boyfriend, and they have been apart for 3 mouths!!! what do i do!?!?!?
2006-12-10 04:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
3 mouths..hahaha?? na j/p... tell her that u wont go out w/ him and that u were jus jaying that cuz u jus thought that he was cute..n nothin more, n that your friendship is more inportant that that guy, i no its been 4 months and seems like a long time but not for her shes really hurt n need time to heel.....LoTz N lOtZ of luck!! hope u guys are friends...tell me how it goes...bye!!
2006-12-10 05:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all hate is a pretty strong word. She probably feels betrayed that you like the guy. Often people use hate or anger to cover up hurt. Talk to her and let her know that you are her friend. No and I mean NO guy is worth losing a friendship.
2006-12-10 05:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by reddemonwi55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
luk dont worry bout that caz you cant help who you like..but luk you need to sit her down and explain it to her and if she is a gud friend she will say ok she doesnt mind or sumthin like that..but if she come out of a bag on you then she is not a gud friend and you need to leave her alone..but the case might be that she still likez him so maybe you might want to give her sum space for a while..but gud luck..best of wishes..i hope everything goes well=)
2006-12-10 04:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Lilsap 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She'll get over it in time apperently she still has feelings for this boy and feels threatened. Apologize and let her know that you would never do anything to hurt. offer to find her a new guy to get her mind of the old lol she'll laugh it off and things will get back to normal!
2006-12-10 05:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lovin life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on if you already liked him b4 they got together, thats not friendly of u to do that to her. Can't you find a man of ur own? If so, do that and salvage ur friendship - then again, ur friendship can't b strong for u to like a guy thst she had feelings for. Wouldn't b my friend if someone paid me.
2006-12-10 04:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by dcbossygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she probably does hate u cause it has berly been three months u should of given her more time to recover.Also how did u actually tell cause if u were rude to her then she has a reason to hate u!
2006-12-10 05:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no reason to be mad at u because they did bork up and it was 3mouths ago. so i say if u like take a change and go for it.ya she going to me mad but she will for give and for get its was 3mouths she should be over him by now.
2006-12-10 05:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason for her to hate you! They're broken up so you can have him! She can't control that! If he broke up with her than she probably still loves him but if she broke up with him than I wouldn't worry about it.
2006-12-10 04:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why your friend is all upset. Are you dating him? If not, then why is she freaking out? Your friend is probably fearing that you might ask him out, if he does, do what you feel is best.
2006-12-10 05:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no reason to be mad at u because she claims they have broken up so just tell her that
2006-12-10 05:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Applekisses11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋