had sex with this girl 3 weeks ago (19 nov). she called me that saturday (25 nov) to tell me that she thinks she missed her period. i wore a condom, i did not c*m, and it did not break. then two thursdays ago we went to take EPT and it said "not pregnant". she claims to not have had sex with anyone else (but I am not so sure). i instinctively feel as though i couldnt have gotten her preg. so we took another test this past Friday and it said "not pregnant". she said her period is usually at end of month/beg of month. she does a bad job keeping track of herself but is pretty certain that its late. she also told me that she has been real worried about both being pregnant and not having enough money to cover her bills. do you all think that I am pretty much in the clear now? I notice that the EPT says that if you do not know your period cycle then its best to take the exam 19 days after having sex to determine pregnancy. With that said I would believe that shes not. Please help me!
2006-12-10 04:29:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous... 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Go with the EPT test. They are incredibly accurate. If she had 2 that said "not Pregnant', then she's not pregnant.
2006-12-10 04:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you, the chances are slim, but it could happen. The only real thing that will tell is waiting up to another month before taking another pee test or have her go to the doctor and draw blood.
If this girl isn't very good at keeping track of her period she might be busy and not have the ability to keep her stress low.
There are more than just pregnancy that could cause her to be later or miss her period at all. Also, if she IS pregnant, she could have what looks like a period and she wouldn't know it.
There are a lot of possibilities here. It would be hard to believe that she's pregnant if you didn't c*m. However, it also depends on what happened before you put a condom on. And those are details only you can know.
So, your best bet is not to stress it, and in about a month, if she hasn't started her period yet, go to a doc and request a blood test. By two months they should be able to find the correct hormones.
In the mean time, I'd stay out of her pants. If she isn't pregnant she could be an overstressful person to be around. Just be careful.
If she is prego.... good luck. Sounds like you didn't plan on it. To get the best help, go to your local social services office - with her - and apply for aid. They can get you hooked up on WIC, Medicaid or the state insurance, and any other "parenting" programs there might be.
If you want something to do with the child, since you aren't in a relationship, get her to sign a piece of paper with a notory that gives an agreement to who has visitation, who pays for what and when. If you don't do this, it could cause a lot of problems later on.
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2006-12-10 04:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by breathofvitality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she is but it is possible that she could be. She needs to go into a health clinic or her doctor's office and have a pregnancy test taken to be sure. Also, those test work best if taken first thing in the morning. If she doesn't keep track of her own periods she may naturally just be irregular and not really have ever paid attention to it. She could also miss her period if she is not eating, putting on a lot of weight, stressed, etc. If she does turn out to be pregnant you may want to ask for a paternity test once the baby is born because if you don't know her well you can't trust that you are the only person she has been with. Even if you are in the clear, I hope you take this as a lesson to not mess around with some one unless you are prepared for the chances of them being your baby's mother and having to deal with them for the rest of your life.
2006-12-10 04:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets break it down
Nothing you wrote is 100% full proof. The Condom, Pulling out, the EPT test none of it. The only 100% is not having sex... but lets move on shall we.
Woman can miss periods or have late periods. I am married I know that it happens.
You have to learn from this experience, this is a testament that you are not prepared for the consequences of your actions.
No matter what technique or method of birth control you use there is no 100% A condom box right on it says NOT100%.
When you cross that line you have to except any and all consequences.
2006-12-10 04:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by FIRE § 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off just relax. Second stress can cause a girl not to have a period. If the thinks she pregnant then the mind can cause the body to react on that. Plus women change there cycles every so often. Just wait a couple of weeks then make her go to the local Health Department and find out for sure. If you did not *** and wore a condom then you problably did not get her pregnant.
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2016-09-03 09:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably on the line of wanting to be pregnant, but is not. And wants to see what you'll do if it does happen. She probably is not getting her period because she is stressed.
If she is not trying to get preganant and is worried about having kids I would tell her that it is cheaper to buy condoms than a pack of diapers 2-3 times a month.
2006-12-10 04:39:29 · answer #7 · answered by blaqberries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that there are some women in this world that are like this.
OK you need to make sure the next time you have sex is when you are married and the woman that you make love to is honorable and knows that she loves you.
If this girl is pregnant you have messed up your whole life.
Think of the child.
I would make sure to take her to the doctor and find out for sure.
2006-12-10 04:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by ~Mysti~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think she is pregnant but I think that she is very worried about getting pregnant and definitely is not ready to get pregnant if she is having to take that many prego tests. I would talk to her about getting on the pill so it won't be such a scare for her and you. I would be writing down on your own calender when she has her period and keep track yourself. Best of luck
2006-12-10 04:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Autumn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. The only thing you can really do is wait long enough so that her hCG levels (if they're present) are high enough to trigger a home pregnancy test, or you can visit your local health dept. and get a test for free usually. That would be one way to get a definitive answer.
2006-12-10 04:36:14 · answer #10 · answered by Marty B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋