Can you get pregnant if someone has 'fingered' you, say if they had sperm on their fingers or something?

Question

Im only 14 and i dont wanna be pregnant any time soon, not within the next ten years if poss. Me and my bf have been left alone, and he has had his fingers places. Ive realised i havent had my period lately, i think its been at least 35days, is there a longer period that could be the case? please help

I talked to my mum and it seems shes not had hers, and our periods normally synchronise. Maybe its something to do with that. I showed her the question i put on here and she thinks that im worrying too much. Shell get the preg test at the next possible time, but she doesnt believe that i am.

*** She doesnt think i am pregnant.

Answer 1

right you should sit down and think about this. if you want to check then you should go to the family planning clinic. they will be able to do a free test for you nad offer you help and support. dont worry. when i was 16 me and my boyfriend had sex and the condom split and we were in deep trouble. but luckily i got the morning after pill and i didn't end up pregnant.

Answer 2

You need to answer the pregnancy question quickly. Take a home pregnancy test. You need as much time as possible to decide how you will handle a pregnancy at 14.

This is the sort of thing that proves the idea of not teaching anything but abstinence in school is a disaster.

Yes, you can get pregnant if there is sperm on his fingers. You can get pregnant if he put his penis between your legs and ejaculates outside your vagina. You can get pregnant if he put his penis in you but pulls out before he ejaculates. Even if your hymen is still intact, you can get pregnant.

All it takes is one sperm that is a good swimmer and a small amount of moisture to swim in. When one ejaculation produces millions of sperm, the odds of one making it to the egg are pretty good.

About the only sexual activity that will keep sperm away from your vagina is oral and you swallow. The acids in your stomach kill them all.

Get in touch with Planned Parenthood. It's a good organization that will provide you with real information about getting pregnant and birth control.

Last part of your questions is the "longer period." A lot of things determine a late period. Stress at school, poor diet, or you just aren't completely regular yet are 3 examples. You may start at any time, but I would still strongly suggest being sure with the home pregnancy test. You need to know as soon as possible.

Answer 3

Yes, you can get pregnant that way. It's a long shot, but it can happen, if there is some live sperm on his fingers, and inserts into your vagina, yes you can get pregnant. So, in future, I would make sure he washes his hands first.....good plan all round. If you haven't had a period in 35 days, and you were regular before, I would get to the doctor.

Answer 4

Yes you can.
Presumably your period is normally regular and more frequent than this? If so then go to your local GUM clinic (takes away the embarrassment of seeing your own doctor) and have a test done, get some sex education, and think of your future.
If your past questions are anything to go by then you're an extremely clever girl so don't waste it by doing something so silly so young.
Finish your schooling and for goodness sake be careful with your boyfriend!

Answer 5

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Can you get pregnant if someone has 'fingered' you, say if they had sperm on their fingers or something?
Im only 14 and i dont wanna be pregnant any time soon, not within the next ten years if poss. Me and my bf have been left alone, and he has had his fingers places. Ive realised i havent had my period lately, i think its been at least 35days, is there a longer period that could be the case? please...

Answer 6

When you can't get pregnant, and things look good from the outside, it can be extremely frustrating.
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Answer 7

Go get a pregnancy test if you're concerned and sign up for a biology class.
Avoid the situation is you don't understand it. From the tone of the question, pregnancy is the least of your worries....there's Chlamydia, Gonnorhea, Syphilllis, HIV, Hepatitis, Trichomoniasis, Herpes, and my favourite, venereal warts.
Go and educate yourself before you get intimate with a partner. Protect yourself first and be safe.
Go to a GUM clinic and learn what you need to know before sharing yourself with a boy.
Good luck.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

only if he did have sperm on a body part which went near you. remember sperm dont last long outside the body but you should be very careful!
If you are stressed your period could be late but as you are so young they might not have become regular yet.
If you are worried go to a clinic or go see your gp just to be sure.

Answer 10

That's a week late, you should get a test done immediately as you could be pregnant. Get some sex education whilst your there, for your own sake.