with phone in one hand and a cup of tea in other and has a wax in his ears... he gets angry and don't talk to me. says, he doesnt like my atitude and me changing him. what shell I do?
2006-12-10 03:52:29 · 14 answers · asked by alca b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Fart back! That will get his attention...if he doesn't like your attitude..knock the damn tea into his lap. As far as the wax...tell him he needs a bath...
Girl...go get a new man....this one is a dweeb!
:)
2006-12-10 04:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You're asking too much from him. All men fart at times, are messy, and irresponsible sometimes. And what's with the wax thing? I'm sure you have wax in your ear, too. Heck, everyone does! The only thing I'd talk to him about is him drving with his phone in one hand and tea in the other. I'd tell him that that's dangerous, and you don't want him to wreck one day. Other than that, there's nothing wrong with your boyfriend. He's just human.
2006-12-10 07:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl. My boyfriend does the same thing. He farts like a madman, he drives like one too...
About the car thing... tell him that it's too dangerous for him to be driving like that!!! That's not changing him... that's being CAREFUL and using COMMON SENSE.
And about the other things... just be glad it isn't worse... he isn't cheating on you or beating you. That's just him.
About the farting.... tell him that you just think it's rude when he farts in front of you. Make him get up and fart somewhere else. That's just out of courtesy and respect.
About the ear wax, just casually bring up that you wax your ears everyday or something. Maybe he'll tell you how often HE does.
When you two go out to eat, put a napkin on your shirt so you won't get messy. Maybe he'll do the same.
Just "set a good example" and see if he follows. If not, it's definitely not something worth breaking up over. We all have our own "flaws" and you can't hide them forever. In the end, you will have to accept him for himself or not.
2006-12-10 04:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
clarify to him that you're literally not attempting to regulate him, you're in elementary terms making techniques that pertain to his own hygiene and his etiquette. If he can not eat without staining a blouse (I are conscious of it occurs each and every so often yet when that is a known element) then he desires to benefit manners and the most excellent thanks to eat. Farting is a organic prevalence, can not stop many adult males from doing it in the front of you; even as they're tender they are going to do it round you— my fiancee and that i do in the front of eachother because we are not embarrased and typically someone truly desires to enable free. although, wax in ears is disgusting... if he doesn't preserve it he can get an infection; that got here about to me as a toddler. also, using with some thing on your hand is risky. clarify you're only searching for him and his safe practices. An twist of destiny can somewhat ensue even as he does that..
2016-11-30 09:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds horrible! But perhaps he would respond better if you only asked him to stop doing the 3 things you hate the most, so that he doesn't feel like you get at everything he does. You can't ask him not to fart, he'd explode! And you are also being a hypocrite. If you don't like the way he farts and it gets you angry/upset then you should consider splitting up, because he will be doing that until the day he dies.
2006-12-10 03:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he felt like all you do was criticize...
Try to become more accepting or leave the room when he farts. Suggest ideas if you are not crazy about how he does things. A best critic is the one who carries a busload of suggestions.
2006-12-10 03:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put a plug up his backside, hide his keys , starve him stick cotton buds in his ears, scream at him he is an *** when he gets angry and tell him to sling his hook get yourself a nice bloke who does none of the above (farting obviously not to be helped, just not around you) do it before chrismas for yourself as a crimbo present. Happy dumping!!!!!
2006-12-10 04:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by currynut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well may be he hid the farting, but you'd of noticed the driving and dirty clothes and ear wax, so in away he's right............your trying to change him.
we have to be ourselves in order to be happy. It's just finding the other someone who will put up with us and our habits.
2006-12-10 03:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't blame him,you sound like a right moaner,
2006-12-10 05:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent happy with him anymore i think it would be best if you split up from him.
you cant change him into someone he isnt so your best getting with a man that already is how you want him.
2006-12-10 03:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋