These girls think they're all ghetto and rap the stupidest f****** raps ever. They don't even listen to rap or hip hop. They think ghettos and poverty are funny and cool because they are wealthy. They try to act all gangsta when they shop at Abercrombie and Fitch EVERY WEEKEND(all 7 girls together). They just don't take a hint when I give them dirty looks while they're laughing about poor people. I know one day they'll get their a**** beat but it's not soon enough. What should I do?
2006-12-10 03:21:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
know the feeling i wanna punch some people sometimes. but seriously leave them alone. then they will get a reality chek sooner or later, maybe by u!
2006-12-10 03:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by DeAnna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what is your relationship to these girls? Depending on the relationship it depends on what you can do about it. It seems like they have a problem with being decent people in general. Even though it is frustrating, you can't really change these girls. I know people who are bought up in wealthy families and they are ignorant because they know nothing of what it is like to suffer financially or to actually have to wait for the designer products that their parents allow them to indulge in every weekend. It is up to the parents to offer some discipline, but up until this point, (from how you can see how these girls act) I'm sure all they don't realize that they've been doing their kids more harm than good giving them money to spend when they don't deserve it. What I've learned is that you can't change these people-so you have to accept it. At least you're smart enough to recognize who is ignorant and who isn't. Just stay away, that's what I do!
2006-12-11 14:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A better question would be who are you to decide how they should look at something or how they should feel. So you dont like how they are. And so what? Who are you to decide how they have to see anything or who they can admire to dislike.
Ghetto is nothing that anyone should ever respect, for there is nothing respectable about it. It should be made fun of at every chance one has. That these girls never listened to rap only shows they do have some taste. Being poor or less well off should never be confused with being a poor excuse of a human or allowing yourself to use the fact that someone is poor to overlook bad behavior on their part. A lot of people who are not well off know how to act properly, unlike most ghetto types.
Sounds to me as if you are more jealous of them then anything, and probably for reasons other then they have a bit of money.
2006-12-10 11:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's hard to ignore people like that, but I think that's the only thing you can do. Get a friend, and one day when you're standing near the so-called "ganstas", say,"Oh my gosh. Do you like Abercrombie & Fitch? It's like the preppiest place to go shopping." See what they say..or do. Maybe then they'll realize that they're not so gansta after all. As for them making fun of poor people, karma will take care of that. One day, they might end up being poor for making fun of people that were. No one deserves to be poor, but karma does its job, and when it thinks someone deserves it, well, then it lets that person get all that they deserve.
2006-12-10 16:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to focus on your own life and the direction it is going. the only actions you can control are your own and you seem to be lacking in some area because to are , if they want to act that way then fine, you just dont become like them.
2006-12-10 12:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋