were just sitting at my comp. and outta nowhere she starts laughing and and starts rubbing my knee. i mean yea she my friend but im starting to get scared. trust me she LOVES boyz but um yea???
2006-12-10 03:09:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
goes both ways
2006-12-10 03:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by Foss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be just a friendly thing, girls hug each other all the time too. Or it could be that she's bisexual - loves both boys and girls.
If you're not comfortable with it, start off by subtly moving your leg away from her hand, or a bit less subtly take her hand off your knee. If those sorts of things don't work, then have a talk with her.
2006-12-10 11:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by zandyandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and see what happens. What are you afraid of? That she may have feelings for you that might get in the way of your friendship? You can always tell her that you love her but not in that way if it gets really uncomfortable for you. But you may be reading too much into it...she touched your leg, so what? Wait and see if she tries to kiss you before you say anything.
2006-12-10 11:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by zizou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some girl friends are the touchy feely type and some are not. If it makes you feel uncomfortable and you don't want her to do it...simply say that. She will understand. Sometimes people like to expierement...and they think they can with someone that they are close to and won't judge them. Just let her know you don't like it
2006-12-10 11:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Eastcoast beachgirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm sure she doesnt mean anything by it, she prob just is really "touchy - feelly" --- does she love to give hugs and stuff?
i would just be like to her -- in a like joking sorta way -- i hate when people touch my knee, its so wierd i just dont like it.. and then to make things NOT awkward touch her knee and like pull your hand away and be like "see? thats yucky!!" "yuck!" and then like laugh it off
dont do it where it seems serious, just do it in a joking way
2006-12-10 11:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by brookbabe90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's bi?
you could ask her in a joking way....start laughing while she is doing it and say "hey..so we're doing that now? no longer like boys" if you use humour to diffuse the situation, it may not be akward
2006-12-10 11:12:47 · answer #6 · answered by Louisa C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it to much unless she was to make a move or something then maybe you should confront her about it and clear the air.....
2006-12-10 11:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by */-Puss-n-Boots-/* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her about it maybe she was just curious to find out your reaction or maybe she wants to tell you something personal,like she is bi?if you r a good friend maybe you can be one and ask her ...
2006-12-10 11:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by what??? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her is if we are going to be friends don`t be gay-y because you are rubbing on my knee
2006-12-10 11:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kiara T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to stop it. She may be wanting to tell you something. If that's the case. Don't be judgemental, just let her know, it won't be happening with you.
2006-12-10 11:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say dont' knock it till you try it! Best of luck to you!
2006-12-10 11:12:20 · answer #11 · answered by fwscooter1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋