we got married last years in a church, while we dated we had lots of sex and alot of fun, at first we were happy, then for a whole day she did not talk to me, any time i would try and talk to her she would ignore me, now i know it can't be another man, we trust each other very much and besides i make sure she is not trying to cheat on me! any way for the last past few weeks she has has not talking to me my god!!! whats the matter huh!!! could she be preganant!!
2006-12-10 02:22:25 · 11 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She might be pregnant and she probably dont want to tell you cause she is afraid of your reaction. Why dont you try to sit her down and have a talk maybe she might open up.
2006-12-10 02:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by Evie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've done something bad, dude. I don't know what it is, but the first time you hurt them, really let them down, they don't tell you, they just stew.
You're not going to get it out of her at this point...if you do manage to, it won't matter...the First Hurt generally is never forgiven, but it can be made up for.
I'm not saying jump through hoops for her, but you need to work on being uber-husband right now. That's not as difficult as it sounds; what you should do is attain to a little higher level of attentiveness than you currently are, but only enough that you will be consistent with it. Make some personal goals and stick to them. You'll feel better and you'll eventually regain her confidence, and this episode will, over time, fade into the distance for her. You may never know what it was, but females respond to effort made with consistency.
2006-12-10 13:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have hurt her but she thinks that you know you have done this so she is ignoring you for it. the very best thing out of this childish behaviour is to say that you think that you have hurt her and you are sorry for hurting her but because you are clueless and a big dumbo (or something similar) you have no real idea what you have done can she tell you so that you won't do it again. this is not admitting that you are wrong but it admitting that you have hurt her so in her eyes you are wrong. but not in your own Right. Any how this will change the situation and if you do a good job of it she will laugh at how she is behaving and you have a result. Good luck
2006-12-10 10:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by sarell 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It was the same way with my husband. We got married, and then the sex stopped, and he prefers sitting by himself on the couch watching football. Maybe people just get comforatable when they get married. I guess she could be pregnant, although I didn't act that way while I was pregnant. Did you forget something important to her?
2006-12-10 10:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by adi23 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to get serious with her and find out why she is shutting you out before you are wanting a divorce. something is up. what do you mean you make sure she is not cheating on you ,do you lock her up ,do you not let her go places,do you check her phone calls etc?
2006-12-10 10:31:10 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she gone more now than she was??? or maybe she is just depressed, you should pay all the attention that you can to her and always tell her you love her, but really if shes depressed, go to a counseler
2006-12-10 10:57:05 · answer #6 · answered by enochsangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy your way out ,try flowers...if that dosent work u might have to sit her down and explain what you are seing and how u feel.
wear something comfortable u might have to listen 4 awhile and do listen...
2006-12-10 10:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by marshall m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she needs to grow up. not talking is so childish sit her down and tell her you need to know what is going on and you wont let it go till she does.
2006-12-10 10:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like shes pretty pissed off, better ask her whats up
2006-12-10 11:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by Nixxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask her
2006-12-10 10:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by raffi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋