What do you do when you like someone who doesn't like you? Do you just hang in there and hope that things will get better? Do you try to change yourself into who you think it is he wants? Do you try to move on even though the thought of it scares you to death?
2006-12-10 02:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by Kedar 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You try to move on. And it is hard, and it is scary, but so are a lot of things. You try to learn to love and respect yourself, and to realise that you can get along alone, so you don't have to be hanging on waiting for someone else.
Hopefully, when you have become stronger and more independent, you will find that more people are attracted to you for good reasons. If you come across as vulnerable or needy, you will only attract people who value those qualities in a partner, and that's not healthy.
It's not easy to walk away from someone you want, but expecting either you or him to change is hopeless. Become who you want to be, not what you think someone else wants.
Good luck and best wishes.
2006-12-10 04:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good question I have been rejected all my life however I move forward I know in my heart that I am a good person I am 31 years old have only one friend and never had a real girlfriend that I can speak of. I am not a bad person I just have a hard time meeting people but I have view on life that are not popular and I refuse to change my views for anyone I know that one day I will find some friends and then I will know that they are true friends.
2006-12-10 10:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my friend, You will experience this a few times in your life. I think I can safely say we all have. You can't hold back from experiencing all that life has to offer. You should never try to mold yourself into what other people think or feel how you should live your life. You would regret that later on. I know for myself on that one. It might have worked for a bit, alas, it backfired and was not a good thing for many years. You NEED to move forward. Take pride in yourself and all that you do. Be proud of who you are and take pride in that in every breath you take. You have one life. Make the most of it. Someday, someone will love you for who you are. not what you might be able to do for them. First, you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. Life could be like a haunted house. You never know what is around the next corner. Sure, it can be scary. You make it through the house though, don't you? Love and pride in yourelf with God's grace will help you through trying times.
2006-12-10 10:31:52 · answer #3 · answered by punxsyparty 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If someone rejects you there's no point in persisting because you are just wasting your time. There was this one boy at college that literally harrased me to go out with him and I ended up making a formal complaint against him. So from a woman's point of view it's not worth persuing a woman that doesn't like you, although if you are looking to meet ladies go to rock clubs it's very easy to pull cos us rock girls are more friendly. Tip don't use chat up lines just start a conversation and make them feel at ease with you.
BE FRIENDLY NOT DESPERATE.
2006-12-10 10:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Amy H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i move on. I'm not about to change who i am for anyone or any reason. take me as i am or forget it. i also won't waste my time hanging in there and waiting for them. that would be like waiting for them to change. i don't want someone to change for me, who they are is what i was attracted to if they change , then most likely my feelings towards them will also
2006-12-10 10:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ron N 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋