We have a newborn daughter her name is Casandra, you see my wife is mexican, last year we spent the holidays at my parents house, but this year we want to spend it with my wifes family in mexico, but now i kinda have to choose, my parents or her parents because iam afraid not spending time with my family i'll feel guilty! what should i do?
2006-12-10 02:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by garnessilva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have to be fair to her she wants to be with her family too. You could have Christmas at your place and have them all over, that could solve the problem if not you should go to her parents it;s only fair and I am sure your family will understand.
2006-12-10 02:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can sit your wife down and talk to her...since you went to your parents house, why not spend time before christmas at your parents house and spend christmas with her parents...
or
Fly her parents down and both your families spend time together as one to get to know each other..
2006-12-10 16:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty? Stop being a milk baby and realize there's a rotation in place now. You can't cut her parents off like that.
2006-12-10 13:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got to see your family last year and she didn't. Come on now, be fair. If your parents are closer than hers, you can always see them before you leave, or after. 50/50, remember?
2006-12-10 10:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes last year u now mush be her parents too and next year then go to ur parents , take and give , so that ur love will last forever
2006-12-10 10:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you you and ur wife spent christmas with your family you should spend time with hers... if yuo dont that will be selfish... and if you tell your parents they will understand...
2006-12-10 10:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only have one set of parents-you or your daughter wouldnt be here if it wasnt for them. put your parents first!
2006-12-10 10:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by norb4423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing to feel gilty about. work your parents some other time
2006-12-10 10:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by robert c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋