women you have caught a guy with a deer in the headlight look , like he was trying to check you out discretly but it became obvious
Lets pretend that you ladies get to take control of a guys actions just like in the sims for 10 minutes after he has his DITHL(deer in the headlight )reaction to you.
what would you have him do next ?
2006-12-10 02:06:41 · 4 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I don't think I would want to take control of his actions. I really doesn't bother me if I am being checked out. If anything it cracks me up. I mean I actually do have control over him if I want. There are very few women who get that zoned out when they see a hunk. Sometimes I feel it is men who are the weak ones.
2006-12-11 17:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by haiku_katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha! Some guys are just naturally shy, or embarrassed easily, its the type of environment he was exposed to, its like a defensive mechanism to look away when somebody caught him or perhaps just a pathetic mindset that if he looked away then perhaps the lass who caught him staring really wasn't looking at him and his 'probably lecherous' thoughts wasn't exposed as well. In most cases, its actually the sub conscious thought that the guy was in when he was suddenly caught off guard that made him look the other way. Just a word of advice, those guys that tend to look without flinching or a hint of self consciousness are the ones you ought to be wary off, they are the veterans on the field, their mind is set on preying, and they tend to be smooth with a lot of things including deception. But this is a generalization, some are actually more exposed to a lot of people and will not flinch nor back down from a staring contest, most law enforcers are like this, and so does most psychologists, lawyers and politicians.
2016-05-23 01:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile
2006-12-13 22:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's good looking, look back and smile.....even a tiny smile.
If we're not interested, look back and look away.
If we feel threatened, look back and GLARE!
He will know which look he gets. Then we see what's behind the stare. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
WE have a Right to a ROCKING RELATIONSHIP, so go for it, but give us our space at the same time. Got that? You would be the first guy who did, if you really understand that theme!
GOD bless!
2006-12-10 02:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋