so ive been with my b/f for 2years....im so happy!!!!.....but sometimes i just get tired, and bored of the everyday, boring, just blahhh things we do (such as movie night, AT HOME)-i love him to death, but i go through phases like this alot!!!! anyone with comment/suggestions???...
2006-12-10 02:03:23 · 9 answers · asked by Ash 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's time to shake up your routine...but not find a new partner.
Try splurging on a vacation for the two of you; that often helps to shake up routines, but it can be expensive. Another alternative is to have one or both of you take separate vacations - like visiting your parents. By leaving for a week, you remember all the things about your partner that you appreciate, and you're eager to see them again!
If movie night is becoming predictable, why not make it a 'family night' and have many different things to try? Go to a games store nearby and pick up a few new board games (some are very fun - they have hundreds of games now, not just Monopoly and Scrabble. Try finding a copy of 'Carcassone', 'Hacienda' or 'Who Killed Dr. Lucky?')
And of course, I'd suggest going out more often. It doesn't have to cost you anything - it could be as simple as visiting some friends, or inviting them over for a dinner party.
Good luck!
2006-12-10 02:20:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The number one rule in keeping a relationship strong is communication. Tell him you need some spice. Find some new things to experience together. Have fun without him sometimes, go out with the girls. Absence sometimes is the best medicine.
2006-12-10 02:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Xty♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weve been together for 4 years and i get that a lot too.
i initiate change by doing something different like purposefully messing the house so he will clean it, messing up my clothes and pretending that im ill so that he'll do the laundry, breaking up some staff so he can mend it and so on.
but really if youre bored initiate the change, you cant expect him to react to something that he does not obviously know i.e he is clueless that youre getting bored.
2006-12-10 02:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by globiaeon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want something different to do for once. Spicing things up can be fun and entertaining. Now for me and my boyfriend I'm tired of going out all time.
2006-12-10 02:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens have u tried to arrange a night out with him? have u spoken to him about it and suggested that the two of you atleast do something outside once or twice a week.
2006-12-10 02:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around for new things to do. Ask friends and coworkers. It is easy to rut into a rut.
2006-12-10 02:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, stop putting the entertainment selection on your bf, you have a mind too, use it to come up with something interesting that is different
2006-12-10 02:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, try some kinky toys in bed.
2006-12-10 02:05:06 · answer #8 · answered by norb4423 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone does,
it will happen with everyone you ever meet
2006-12-10 02:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by catweazle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋