i hate babies is this wrong and i hate marriage?

Answer 1

Then don't do either one, it's totally up to you.

Answer 2

Well if you take the stance that we are responsible for our thoughts and actions and feelings, then when you say 'hate' you need to ask what it is within you that sparks the reaction of hate? Babies don't do it - you do it. Marriage doesn't do it - you do it. So why? What negative experiences have you had that causes these reactions? Work on why - deal with it then ******* get over it, go and get married coz you'll get lots of presents and **** a lot and have babies - simple!

Answer 3

This probably because you had such a traumatic and dark past times in your life.
When someone raised in the darkness, unhappiness and abusive environments there will be a tendency for him or her to despise family things and stuffs when they get older. This is the side effect as a victim of having a dark past time...

I used to hate babies, children and married couples a lot before... but now I know why. My past is the answer. I was abused when I was a kid so this is the side effect from my unhappy childhood.

Surely this inside you has something to do with your past. You may try to take a trip down memory lane to analyze your past meticulously, bit by bit.
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Answer 4

We just don't hate something. There has to be a reason whether we know the answer or reason right now or not.

However, what you hate, make sure that you are not apart of. So, don't go getting yourself pregnant and when you are in a relationship or dating, make sure the other person is aware that you have no plans on marriage.

Best of luck.

Answer 5

You "hate" babies? Hate is a strong word, I think you should be kept away from them for their safety, you sound like a monstrous person.

You "hate" marriage? If you have never been married and you are making this judgement, you are an idiot,
if you have been married and make this judgement, you are bitter.
Either way, you should stay away from the opposite sex and get your tubes tied.

Answer 6

hate is a strong word! Dislike babies and not agree with the institution of marriage all you want but save hate for your actual enemy's discription.

Answer 7

No, it's not wrong. You've just made a personal decision not to have either, that that's your right. I know there are a lot of people who believe that marriage isn't for them, and I wish more people would realize they don't really want to be parents before they reproduce.

Answer 8

It's not wrong at all. You have a right to live life as you want it.

Wrong would be if you had a girlfriend who wanted to get married/kids and you were like "Yeah, someday soon" and never did it. And wasted 10 years of her life. (but you knew all along you didn't want it)

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But as long as you're upfront with the people you date, you can do whatever you want.

Answer 9

No, this is not wrong. Everyone is entitled to their own feelings. Marriage and babies is not for everyone. Some people like marriage, but don't want babies. Some peole want babies and don't want marriage. Some want both and some want none. You are perfectly normal.

Answer 10

It's okay to not prefer to be married or have children. Why do you think you put such a strong emotion as hate on them? We were all babies once. We can't help it and neither can they. Try to find some patience for them.

Answer 11

Not wanting to have babies is okay; but hating them makes me want to slap you right now! They are the sweetest people you can ever come accross! Even people like you were once sweet and innocent as babies. Your loss man!