I'm a male of 25 and falling in love with an 18 student a next door neighbour I spent hours with?

Question

I think he has no clue I'm gay but he never mentionned a girlfriend eithe, he's just perfect!!!.

Should I tell him?

Answer 1

I agree with that Ron dude. You should tell him if you two are really close as friends. If he's straight there's 80% chance he's gonna say no. There's a 30% chance he'll freak out. You could not tell him your into him and only say your gay, he'll accept that better. Then over time maybe he'll turn bi.

I have quite alot of friends that were friends with gay guys and they've ended up going bi. But bisexuality is alot more excepted where I live in england more so than in other places. 50% of my friends are Bi.

Answer 2

Hi Jacob, reverse the situation and your the 18 yo student and a 25yo predator next door wants your body. Man grow up and let him grow up, go and find someone your own age at least until you know for sure hes gay, but its not up to a senior guy like you to turn a kids head, I can tell you everyone will hate you and you will have to leave and then you wont see him anymore anyway, remember hes only a student and he doesnt need that sort of attention from his gay neighbour at this time. If you intend to make a move then wait until he's ready not you. Why would he mention his G/F to you anyway, he might not trust you.

Answer 3

its perfect if he is interested, continue to develop the partnership and friendship, and see where it leads.

As for the complete idiots that answered this question. The boy he is interested in is 18 -- which fulfills age of consent in EVERY state, so get your f**ked up and stupid morals off both of them. I have had sex since I was 13, I've never regretted it, my lover, with whom I've been now for 15 years as of the second of January fell in love with me when he met me and waited until he was legal to seduce me. The age difference between us has meant nothing in our nearly 15 years together, and I think if both people are interested, its none of your business, whatsoever.

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Reyn
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Answer 4

Come on good man, grow some stones and ask the guy out. Trust me, if he says no, yes, it will hurt and suck. But you will get over it, and have better luck next time. But if he says yes, then you might have something really nice. It is a chance that is worth taking.
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Answer 5

well, i think that isn't a good idea since you are 7 years older than him . If he isn't gay in the first place, you are probably going to freak him out by asking him out. First, ask him if he likes girls. If he says no, then that is your chance to ask if he might find you attractive

but like i said b4, i think you should just keep your feelings to yourself

Answer 6

Well be careful there bud. you might not like the result if you hit on him. Talk to him cautiously. 18 y/os are cute but so are puppy and kittens how many do you want? You might want to get to know the person internally rather than externally. He might be a real ***** once you get to know him

Answer 7

by no skill ever do the neighbor,it extremely is at the same time as a torrid affair will grow to be a horrid affair....... at the same time as she seems to be your new deadly charm,once you tell her to severe tail it on down the line! slightly get with your spouse and a lady stranger sounds a lot extra pleasing now doens't it?(and also you may nonetheless have your equipment interior the morning!)

Answer 8

There is nothing wrong with it. If you marry her, the age difference will prove as the years go by to be perfect. Good luck!

Answer 9

Talk to him about it then tell him that you are gay and ask him if he a girl friend or not. And if he says no then you can try to ask him if he is gay.

Answer 10

he's an adult, go ahead and ask him out. he may not be gay but it seems alot of the younger generation is more accepting theses day's, so even if he is str8 he may take it as a compliment