Me, this girl I hate, and a friend always hang out. I pretend to like the girl I hate for the sake of my other friends. When us 3 hang out I tend to get left out cos the girl I dislike is a fat mouth who excludes me by talking about things I don't know about. Recently though she had this huge fight with my friend saying I was stealing the friend away from her. It's a load of rubbish cos the friend has known me for longer..and trust me I'm not doing no stealing! If I show my anger at the girl I hate it'll just bring up major tension between our friendship group, but I can't let this one go and pretend to be nice to her anymore. Enough is enough! What do I do? Aaaaany advice is welcome!
btw, my friend already knows I dislike her, my friend and the girl I dislike made up after the fight and talking to the girl I dislike about this ain't a option.
2006-12-10 01:26:07 · 7 answers · asked by Baby Doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMG.. I'd faced this problem b4..almost the same.. Do u know what i did i do? hehe..well, this sounds a bit evil but I think this is the best way to slove ur problem.. whenever I and the girl I hate had an arguement..I often cry in the end( remember to cry softly not loudly)..or showed that i was hurt(acting) to my friend ..my friend surely sympathized with me.. soon,it turned out my fiend dislike her too..my plan had succeeded.. Don't always tell ur friend that u dislike her..let ur friend know what is really happened.. show that girl u hate that she isn't longer welcomed in ur group..of course,don't let others know abt it.. Good luck~~
2006-12-10 01:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lovely_Pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need an even number in your group. One person always feels left out if there is an uneven number.. because one person always directs their conversation to one person.
Friends consider each others feelings.. your old friend is not doing this... She obviously wants to be friends with the girl you dislike.. I think she has made her choice.. as it is obvious her loyalty does not lie with you....She probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you to scram, but she is letting you know she is leaving you behind so to speak.....
Sometimes, old friendships fall to the wayside of new ones..
I am sure sooner or later she will discover this girl has an attitude and is not so great.. but she isn't seeing that right now and has chosen her over you.
Sorry, but that is what I see here...
It maybe time for you to get a new friend and keep her as an acquaintance.
2006-12-10 09:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds like what happened to me yesturday.. me and my gf had plans and her friend she knows i dont liked asked her to do something and she said she was hanging out with me then the friend says i always steal her from her and that stuff... so i told my gf were still doing something and she calls me from her friends and i ask if shes staying there first questio by the way...and after that i was like do you wanna come over..
My advice STEAL your friend back go somewhere where you know the other friend doesnt want to go.
2006-12-10 09:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by jake 48 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend that you simply cannot deal with the other girl. It's OK not to like someone and I do not even know why you would hang out w/ her. Move on and, if your friend doesn't move on with you, she's not a very good friend.
2006-12-10 09:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're jealous of the girl you hate.Obviously you don't want the two other girls to get along because you resent anyone else getting attention.Maybe grow up a little and get along with everyone.
2006-12-10 09:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by BubbyWubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on your way, doing what your doing. Let HER be the hater, it just makes her look worse. In fact, if you could stand it, be NICE to her, just to screw with her. You'd be surprised how much fun that could be, AND it will make you look good and pi*s her off in the meantime. Lighten up, let her bury herself.
2006-12-10 09:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is why i avoid women.
2006-12-10 09:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋