Will they both remain Virgins forever. I thought it was intercourse with a man that made a virgin a non-virgin. What does it take and at what point is a lesbian woman virgin NOT a virgin anymore. I am talking physically not emotionally or spiritually.
2006-12-10 01:22:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Virginity classified in the Bible as genital to genital, hand to genital, and mouth to genital, oh and butt to genital.....it doesn't say anything about if the body part is male or female therefore when girls have sex even with a strap on it is losing their virginity. In medical terms when the hymen is streched or the "cherry is popped" that is when the virginity is lost....this can happen even when a tampon is inserted...every women is different. BUT there are conteversial questions about this and alot of people believe it is only when sexual intercourse between a man and a women happen... I personally go with the bible on this question.
2006-12-10 01:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin when I met my husband. I was in college, later working on my Master's, I come from a very high educated family and he doesn't. He also was sexually active and all of that. I have no idea how many women he has slept with but I know he did get around. When we were dating this bugged me because I often felt myself comparing myself to the women he had been with and wondering how I was measuring up but something I realized is that the man he is with me isn't the man he was when he was so sexually active. I had met some of his exes or well more women he had slept with and I was amazed that he would even stoop that low but again he is not the man he once was. And you have to remember that with your wife. So sex with her wasn't as cherished and valued as it was with you. So she had threesomes and a lot of partners. But is who she was then, who she is now? Has she suggested you have 3somes? Has she said anything that tells you she is who she once was? I'm sure some of her sexual past happened when she was drunk and people just let themselves go at that point. So her thoughts on sex may not measure up to yours but know that in the end she picked you. Not those idiot guys, but you. Her past is her past. We all have one. And when we are with someone we love we learn to accept it. At least she was honest and up front with you about everything. How would you feel is she kept it all hidden until 10 years down the road. Would you still feel the same as you do now? Would you feel worse? Would you ever care? One last thing, so some guys can add another notch in their belt for sleeping with your wife way back when but only you can say for sure how much you love her. That is more than any of the other people could ever have given her.
2016-05-23 01:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Winifred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity has to do with having inner-course and has nothing to do with breaking the hymen. For a woman there are four ways to lose your virginity:
1. sexual intercourse with a man--vaginally
2. sexual intercourse with a man--anally
3. sexual intercourse with a woman (strap-on dildo)--vaginally
4. sexual intercourse with a woman (strap-on dildo)--anally
So, the women would no longer be virgins where woman to woman sex is concerned (if they have inner-course both ways) but could remain virgins where man to woman sex is concerned.
2006-12-10 01:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the poster above (Jayma). Semi-related note - I've actually read about rape cases in foreign countries where the offender was given a lenient sentence because he penetrated the young girl in the "behind" thus leaving her virginity intact in the eyes of the court (like as if this is any less traumatic!!!)
2006-12-10 01:38:44 · answer #4 · answered by LanceMiller77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you must understand Lesbian sex! you do not have to be with a man to have intercourse! if a another woman gos inside of a woman and she is not a virgin! you must understand lesbians love! if the two are inside of each other their are not virgins!
2006-12-10 01:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by fatulovered 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Physically if the hymen is intact a woman is a virgin. So if either of them ever uses dildo or something else to penetrate they may no longet be a virgin.
2006-12-10 01:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If two woman have sex say induce one another even then there would not be an intercourse. loosing virginity without an intercourse is not possible. so woman cannot loose virginity without a man.
the same holds for males too.
Virginity is lost when a man or a woman first have sex with the opposite sex.
That's it.
2006-12-10 01:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
They could use a strap on dildo. And I think if they go inside each other they can also loose their virginty(sexy)
2006-12-10 03:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when the Hymen is broken then no more virgin, this can happen with a penis, fingers, toys or cuccumbers, no hymen no virgin
2006-12-10 07:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by ponitail 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they use dildos I think they stop being virgins, but thats just me
2006-12-10 16:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋