I have this friend. We were best friends up until now. At first, we hated this one girl, and she would annoy us so much! We would always say mean things about her behind her back and everything (not that we are proud of doing that)! Well now, we are like, best friends with her because we have seen how nice she can be. One problem: My best friend forever likes this girl more than me! Now she never calls me, only this girl. When we have partners, she alawys picks THIS GIRL! I havnt done anything mean to her so I dont know what her deal is. I really just want to forget about both of them and move on. I mean, I have plenty of other friends! I have tried to do that, but it just doesnt work! I have known my best friend since I was a baby and we have been best friends ever since! I cant just give her up like that! Its too hard! I really need some good advice that I can really work with. I really need to deal with this fast! please help me!
2006-12-10 01:02:41 · 8 answers · asked by Annabelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to him and talk to her too
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2006-12-10 01:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well this happens to a lot, even best friend need a time out. My advice, give her a little time alone, find some other frinds to hang out for now. Later on you can go back with your old friend and the frisnship will be even better.
2006-12-10 01:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Ruben Otero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This type of thing happens often in relationships with your friends. If you have plenty of other friends(as stated) , then hang out with them until your other friend comes back around, if she doesn't, she's not a true friend. Invite them both to go to a movie, or hang out at your house, etc.
You can't force someone to be your friend and it isn't beneficial to look pitiful around them and wait like a lost puppy for attention. Keep busy and positive, everything will work out.
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2006-12-10 01:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by MRJACK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you may be a little jealous..you need to relax and just realize that this is part of growing up. if you keep getting upset with this, you will push your freind out. you have put to much into what freinds are. if you want to be a good friend, allow your friend a chance to get to know other people also. don't give up a friendship because of jealousy. this happens a lot as we grow up, you will know who your true friends are as you go threw life..blessings
2006-12-10 01:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, have a private communicate with your instructor. First, admit in an very well mannered way which you probably did this, don't get excited, nor mad. Then, clarify that they have got been making relaxing of you, that's the speech section, memorize right here: i incredibly comprehend regardless of I did replaced into incorrect, yet i had my motives in the back of it. some females have been making relaxing of me, and it incredibly made me sense uncomfortable. It made me offended, my suggestions went hazy and that i assumed the sole way i'd desire to sense greater effective is to doodle them. I convey regret deeply, yet i myself think of that I deserve my rights as a individual.
2016-10-05 03:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is a bit of ' competition ' going on here -- why?
perhaps in the heat of it all there is probably a perfectly good explanation to this .
you need to talk to your 'best ' friend at a morning tea or whatever and discuss the situation , being mindful that you don't 'own' anyone as such ( certainly not her ) . good luck .
2006-12-10 01:13:40 · answer #6 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand between you and your friend. Since you have a lot of friends, you don't really to talk to this friend you stated here. Or, when you walk across him/her, give him/her an expression that he/she neglected you. Maybe. he/she will think throughly and he/she will talk to you someday. Gu luck :)
2006-12-10 01:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by wonderful girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I really just want to forget about both of them and move on." -- Then do so.
2006-12-10 01:07:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋