what should i do please help me ..i dont hav any friend ........ i m realy thnk full to all of u . plz give me some suggestion .
2006-12-10 00:33:12 · 20 answers · asked by fizajatts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make some close friends, they are a lot help when you're sick of keeping all your feelings to yourself. . .
2006-12-10 00:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.....
life sucks sometimes, ain't nobody gonna deny that.
i've been down before. i've been as far down as you can be and still be alive to tell about it. so i know that things can sometimes be really sh#tty.
here's a question: how old are you?
because i was younger(between 14 and 20; i'm 26 now) and it definately makes a difference.
being in high school can really blow.
but it's not the whole world, it's barely even a speck of it.
there's a lot out there, there's a whole reality to explore and create.
as far as friends go, who needs em? enjoy and learn from your solitude.
as far as wanting to die sometimes, yeah it happens, but don't get too sucked into that.
here's a thought: we are what we think. meaning if you think about horrible, negative things all the time, then what do you think your life will be like.
take a walk. go outside and enjoy nature. read alll the time. read Hermann Hesse, he is my favorite author.
this is all for some other purpose, some sort of test or something to see where we're placed afterwards. at least that's my thought. so if that's true, enjoy it. experience everything to the fullest; good, bad, and otherwise. this is your world, your reality. if it sucks, it sucks because you have made it that way. change it. discipline yourself and change it. it can seem pretty hopeless, but it's not.
i hope you get through this rough spot and continue on with your path.
and remember,
enjoy the ride.....
ex animo,
T
2006-12-10 08:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try therapy.Therapy helps more then what people think. Or you can go out and make some friends. But in the mean time you have us to talk to. But dieing is not the solution to your problems. Once your dead your dead there's no going back. Don't make the biggest mistake of your life. If you are thinking more and more about it there are alot of counselors and different people who can help. Good luck and keep your chin up. Life can be much worse. If not having any friends was the only thing I had to worry about I would be doing good.
2006-12-10 08:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Hugs and Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thing; it's not only you who feel this predicament; many are in fact at the verge of commiting suicide; but why? with the growing technologies around you, you can make some recreational; watch tv;play the computer; answer questions; join some fun activities and meet friends. Sometimes it takes guts and positive approach to yourself. Read books and don't be idle; coz if ur not doing anything, you worry yourself too much. maybe you seclude yourself, be with firends. Hoping to die will do you no good; its a wish of a looser and your not coz you won't be asking here if u are; You want to be alive! Look at your good qualities. No two persons are alike so you must have good characteristic traits that people will be attracted to you and enchance these and meet people. They won't come to you if u don't. You have to be assertive in this aspect because you need people to interact with. Help yourself!
2006-12-10 08:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, the reason why no one wants to be around you is because you are way too emotional. Try smiling for once and act very kind to people. Treat others the way you want to be treated.
2006-12-10 13:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to get out in the world and try to make friends . Stop feeling sorry for yourself and you may make a difference in your life and someone elses. Try church or other social venues who knows you may learn to enjoy and embrace your aloneness.....
2006-12-10 08:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my perapevtive maybe you should join some type of group or you should talk to your fmaily more or something if i was in your shoes i would join like a group or just try to go up to people and say hi that is what i do but it kinda matters the age just try doing a group
2006-12-10 08:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by vbcrazy111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you wont make friends if yu keep yourself to your self when ur feelin low make a book of fellings and draw your feelings that is what i did and it work but i sugges you take up classes like hobbies football or what ever you are good at...everyone has a talent ....u do not want to die everybody goes throught that somethimes it will pass soon trust me things will get better but please take my advice xxxx =) keep smiling x
2006-12-10 08:42:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound depressed, you should go see a doctor, and after that you should get involved with a charity or sport, you'll meet new people and feel so much better about yourself.
2006-12-10 08:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by joyall57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmm well use the iternet to vent and try being more assertive but most important never ever give up life is short live to enjoy it things will work out
2006-12-10 11:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by sudzy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go to one of those group things. Its where people go to talk there problems out to each other. This would be great for u because you would have peolpe to talk to and you can make new friends.GOOD LUCK
2006-12-10 09:02:45 · answer #11 · answered by blackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋