i wanted to know really bad if he likes me, but i dont want to go ask him by myself, because i';m afraid that he'll turn me down, so if i tell my other friend to ask him for me..do you think that maybe it'll make it worth or better? what if she ask him and he act different the day he see me?
2006-12-10 00:16:34 · 7 answers · asked by eva d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
getting your friends involved is a bad idea. simply ask him for coffee tea or what ever it is that is popular. be yourself and let him see the real you and go from there. I have never fond of allowing others do the talking for me. just be upfront and if he does not like that way and he is polite about it then so be it but if he is rude you can always yell over your shoulder " see told ya he was an ***" to a girlfriend to save face and walk away.
2006-12-10 01:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by bluedanube69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you afraid of? If you send someone else to do your talking for you, that's sending him a message, right off, that you are unsure of yourself and have no confidence, and are too, too shy to even TALK to someone. Is that how you want people to view you? Try to get up enough courage, (it's not that hard!) to tak to him yourself. Just ask him something about himself, or his interests, LISTEN to him (even if your not particularly interested at the time!) and your in there...guys are easy!
2006-12-10 08:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No harm, except , if the friend U depute to ask him on your behalf happens to be more charming than and less faithful to You.
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2006-12-10 08:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by enjoyment_galore 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like this man then I think you should confront him not your friends he may not like the idea that you wasn't women enough to do it yourself
2006-12-10 08:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by funnecee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can tell you that if you dont start dealing with your own life, others will inevitably mess it up for you and you'll end up angry with them and with yourself.
On that note. you dont have to ask him if he likes you, but rather, just TELL HIM YOU LIKE HIM and LET GO OF HIS ANSWER.
after you tell him you like him you will be able to see how he acts over time. either he wiull like you back or not. if he does, you'll know over time. if he doesnt, that will be4come apparent. dont get all cought up in the outcome.
decide that you will be ok wether he likes you or not. let the real victory be in expressing your true feeligns to him. we dont make others do things, we tell them what we are available for and we let go and let them make their own choices.
remember, our worth doesnt come from others likeing or disliking us, it comes from our own facing of our reality, from our own courage to face our fears and act on faith.
live your life before you regret it. you can do it, i believe in you!
2006-12-10 08:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by rufus11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a gal, I say "go for it" ;)
2006-12-10 08:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by MrRomeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋